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I wanna give him another chance but I need some space...how long should this 'space' be?

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Question - (21 December 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2006)
A female age 30-35, *rokenxXxHeart writes:

Hey Everyone

To start off my name is Bridget and i am currently 13 years of age i attend a middle school and i am in seventh grade. I have had an account on here before but forgot my password and email...i guess stuff like that happens. My former display name was Sweetie Pie if anyone remembers me

Anyhow enough of that lets get to my problem.

Well i was going out with one of my guy friends and everything was going real good we had been dating for almost four months which is pretty long seeing how were in middle school.But then the other day i started getting pissed at him i was talking to him over an instant messanger and he was joking around about breaking up with me and i'm a very sensitive person and i hate wen pple play around like that so i imed with a message basically saying well u know wat were over!The whole thing got real childish if u ask me. He said that he was just kidding and then he was just like what ever. He imed me saying dont hate me though b/c i at least want to be friends still. Then he said he had to get off the computer he said he still loved me and i asked for some time to think things over he said to think about.Today in school he wasnt here my friends said he was chickened to show up but i know thats not like him.I know i still love him i wanna give him another chance but i needs sum space...how long should this 'space' be?I would like to go out with him now but thats stupid breaking up with sumone one day then asking them back out.So how Long should i wait?

thank u for helping me out and answering my questions

if u would like to know more about me my myspace page is http://www.myspace.com/deathrulez

Bye talk to u later guys!!!

ur answers will really help me out

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006):

First off, 13 and in love?

I recall being 13 and had a Dude tell me he loved me and wanted to be with me for the rest of his life. I found this highly odd. I didn't even know him and there was no way he knew me. Suffice it to say, we had a laugh about it a year ago and he confessed that he didn't know what love was. He didn't even knew what dating was like til he was in his 20's.

He married his gf of four years this summer.

I say indefinetly. He isn't the one and he doesn't love you; you don't play mind games with the one you love-you are honest with them and wouldn't think to do a thing to hurt them or anything that would appear contrary to how you feel about them.

Most people don't really know who they are until 24 years of age; that is usually the last stage of true growth...most people will have a hard time with a change of heart after that milestone.

I say wait for a serious relationship til then to avoid all the crap you read about on this site.

Best Wishes.

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