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I try to reassure her but it doesn't seem to work and my attempt to get her attention backfired. What can I do now?

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Question - (29 August 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ejebus101 writes:

wow its a long story, however I went out with this girl that is so insecure about herself as a person, she kept saying "thank you for putting up with me" and she feels like she isn't herself at all, and doesn't believe anyone could love her. however she broke up with me her reason was because she was too sick (she suffers from depression) and that she didn't want to push me away nor hurt me any more, which was pretty sweet ='3, however after a few weeks I went down to see her to see if she was alright, she told me she didn't dumb me, and that she just felt that she was too unfit to be in a relationship,

we acted like we was together and then she told me to come down again, after that I sent her a text saying that she shouldn't worry about our relationship as think about yourself and that I will not create any problems or drama, because it was the summer holidays I just wanted to have fun, long story short I went to gay pride for her to show her I was happy and proud to be with her, she kept on ignoring and pushing me away, just acting like we wasn't together really I was confused so I tried to give her the reassurance she wasn't hurting me and that she was fit, as she was perfectly fine, however she didn't want to talk or listen so I did I dick head move and took her bag to get her attention, she called the police on me and then we haven't spoke since, I have texts her a few times ( because of her posting "I do not believe anyone loves me) to give her that reassurance that we just had a mes s up we will be fine, I sent this long soppy love letter giving her the reassurance that she was hurting me however she hurt me (calling the police) but I can easily forgive her. however instead of getting in contact with me she is spreading round that I am should kind of stalker O_O, what do I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012):

I had a relationship with a person who was bi-polar, and i understand where your coming from. Constant reassurance and just feels like no matter how hard you try you can't get anywhere with there self confidence. With the amount of effort you put in and with her now making you out as a stalker, its time to move on dear, i'm sorry...

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