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female
age
16-17,
*hw473
writes:OK, a few months after i started yr 9, i fell deeply in love with my form tutor. I just couldn't help myself, she's gorgeous! anyway, everyday, i try my best to get her attention, walking noisily and trying my best to be noticed. She doesent seem to be interested and i could never her tell how i feel.I dont know what to do! Am i bi, or straight? I'm so confused. I need help! What should i do? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (20 July 2008):
Having a crush on an older girl / woman is perfectly normal.
You are still growing and are basically a back full of hormones at the moment. You may get over it and marry a nice boy and have a million babies. You may stay this way and never want a man in your life. You may like men and women.
Enjoy your crush and don't worry too much about it as it all may change in the next couple of years.
I wouldn't do too much to make her "notice you" as if she realises you have a crush on her then she may have to inform her boss, and they may talk to you about it, inform your parents and other horribly embarrassing things.
Admire her from a distance.
Good Luck!! xx
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female
reader, saucy sam +, writes (20 July 2008):
 hun i think you are just starting to discover your feelings towards the same / oppsite sex and its healthy for you to be interested, however i really dont think its a good idea to tell her how you feel after all its wrong she's and adult and your coing up to a young woman. i know how upset people can get when they think that their being ignored by the people they really like but you have to tey and let this go. nobody can tell weather your bi, straight, or homosexual only you can answer that hun. hope ive helped feel free to email me anytime xxx
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