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writes: i posted a question last Sept 30 about my problem.summary:i tested him to see if he was really that loyal to me. i got another num and texted him. at first i tried to be anonymous but he wouldnt respond much, kept asking who i was so i said i was G (his hot clasmate). Then I, saying I was G, asked him out on a date at the mall. (all these hapend in text). My ex replied "What are we gonna do at the mall? Why not go to my house or yours?". This made me sick and I wanted to know how far he'll go. So G, asked for his address and if they're gonna have sex, and my ex gave his real address and even said if she wants to then they'll have sex. Of course no girl would show up at his house since this was all made up by me, so G made some excuses at the last minute that she couldn't go. All the while he was trying to come back, saying there's no girl texting him or he fancies. The real me asked him a lot of times if there was a girl texting him and all times he said no, I gave him a lot of chances to tell d truth but he didnt.NEW PROBLEM: When I confronted him about it, he said he KNEW ALL ALONG that the girl was a fake, he just didn't know who was fooling him. He knew it was fake, because he asked some personal questions that she couldnt answer (w/c was true). He did say that I was a fake and wasn't G AT THE START, but he still replied to my fake messages AFTER! He said that's why he asked the girl over his house to prove it was fake and he was just riding along, flirting, to catch her bluffing. He said he really knew it wasn't G so I shouldn't think he's interested, he said he just asked her over cuz he knew she was bluffing! To gather more evidence, he said. He said his only fault was lying to me that no one was texting him, and he didn't tell me about it because he knew it was fake and therefore wasn't really a girl getting between us. He said I shouldn't be worried if it was really G, because he knew it was fake all along, thus everything he did was just riding along, playing along, proving to himself the girl was fake.Now I love him and he really wants me back. (he broke up with me a month ago bcos of space but promised to be back)He's really doing everything to get me back but I don't know if I should believe his explanation and get back w/him or is it just a dumb excuse?
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reader, Toria +, writes (4 October 2006):
 You are probably never really going to know whether his explanation is the truth or not and you could walk away from him always wonder whether you made a mistake.
I've always believed that if you don't want to know the answer don't ask the question or in your case trick your boyfriend.
You love him and want to be with him so I would give him a chance to prove to you that he does love you and wants to be with you, do you really want to throw away what you've got over something that he may be telling the truth over?
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): Well it sounds like you've answered your own question just by reading this problem I can tell your ex is not worth all your detective work! he sounds incredably inmature and his stupid games make my head spin I can imagine what it must be like to be with him you should probably find someone better all his lies have put him in a mess and if hes gonna learn from it and grow up then you should concider taking him back but if you do you need to get off his case stop nagging him and leave his phone alone! good luck
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (3 October 2006):
 Why didnt you trust him in the first place, it was just a prank but look who got hurt be honest with yourself if you thought the big hunk at the end of you street was sending you texts for a laugh would you tell your guy no you would be flattered and thats all, your guy was flatterd that the hot babe from school had text him even tho it was you just a bit of fun have trust in him, if he loves you you will be fine
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