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*estroyed111
writes:please tell me !!well i had been in love with my best friend and i told her that i love her and her responce was like i am shocked and i only believe in friendship you are my sweetest friend and love is a very complex thing so please let this question be unanswered .. atleast for sometime and i accepted what she said and even i will never ask her again or we will never talk about it ever if she isnt interested .. and then our university ended and now we are not able to see each other and things are gettin slow day by day .. like we use to talk the whole damn day even the whole nite we love to see each other online we loved to talk on the fone and she use to reply my txt as soon as possible no matter how important work she was doing and now she isnt doing anything but she isnt giving me that response always busy in her house work or some stupid drawing etc and she never gives me a call and whenever i ask her that i could call her now if she aint busy her response is like she isnt willing and i asked her that we would be online and we will talk like the old days we use to chat and she refused she said she doesnt want to come online .. now she isnt that happy to see me .. i am wondering why is it all happening ?? and i am all blue she doesnt need me anymore coz we cant meet each other or is she still in love with her ex :'( .. what should i do ?? is our relationship going towards an end ??
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (7 December 2007):
Dude you need to understand that you gave the lady a bomb she never expected and she doesn't know what to do.Atleast she's honest in telling you that she can't answer the i love you question because she doesn't wana lie to you.From my experience you've lost your best friend because she'll never be comfortable around you.It's time to overcome the innocence and either convince her to be your lady or move on.She really needs her space right now and you better give ot to her.She'll tell you what she wants once she's made up her mind.I can tell you one thing,she's as confused as you are so be patient.
All the best.
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reader, josien  +, writes (7 December 2007):
oh sory about that . what i see is that you love her but she only likes you
ther is a diffrence with the two. she does not what a commitment with you but just spending time with you.
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reader, Joanne Jane  +, writes (7 December 2007):
Hi! You should ask her if she still wants your relationship
to go on or not...if she says no then you had to move on with your life or you might get confused..but if she says yes then you better find out what's going on....you also had to try hard if you still want her back or maybe give her some time...
wish u luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): well im a little confused about all the circumstances, but i do havev to say that it sucks when someone acts like that and you still like them a whole lot.
i guess my advice would be that since i am only judging by the info i got in the question, that maybe you should give her some space and let her think about what you said to her. see right now you are coming on too strong and he probably doesnt know what she wants to do about you and her, you should let her see if she misses you when you arent a part of her daily life.she will call you again. i mean if you all were good friends then she will call you again. i would just back off for a little bit, i know it will be hard, but trust me it will be worth it. and then when you all see each other again or she tells you whats going on with her you can go from there.
hope everthing works out!! =) hang in there!
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