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I told him not to "nut" in me... but he did! And now I'm worried about the baby...

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Question - (4 August 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2007)
A female United States age 22-25, *z.PoOh328 writes:

Okay i'm 8 months pergnant and i had sex with my baby father. i told him to take his dick out before he nut. he claim that it felt too good. and he "nut" in me. I was wondering is that dangerous because this is my first baby. and i wondering if that is dangerous or will it affect my baby.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntI woulld have a serious chat with your guy about not listening when you say no. He showed no respect for you or your child.

I am 6 months pregnant and one of the first questions I asked my midwife when I found out was is sex safe. She said its perfectly safe. Your baby is plugged up safely with a protective seal holding him/her safely in your vagina. Nothing can get at your baby unless this protective seal is damaged.

My midwife did say that while pregnant you are prone to infections easier. So if you are going to have your guy cum there keep it as clean as you can. Wee infections and thrush can be common while pregnant.

xxxxxxxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

I'd be more concerned that the didn't have the respect or consideration to listen to you. You told him what you didn't want and he went ahead and did it anways. That sounds like he is selfish and has little to no respect for you. There's no excuse for it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

No it's cool, I did it all during my last pregnancy & she's fine. The "nut" can't get to your baby unless you're damaged up there & I assume you're not. Don't worry. Nut is what makes babies!! Isn't that ironic?

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A female reader, Angel1976 United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

No its safe, when you get to your due date, have sex again, it helps the baby come quicker.

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

DrPsych agony auntIn normal circumstances there is no reason why you cannot have a sex life up until the birth. Many women don't feel they want to. Sperm cannot affect the baby because there is a mucus plug around your cervix which stops infections getting in and fluid coming out of the uterus. The baby will be none the wiser to what is going on! However, the exception to the rule is when you have medical complications with the pregnancy in which case your doctor or midwife would have told you to abstain from sexual aerobics.

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A male reader, lead United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

Hi

No dont worry its totaly fine!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

No it won't affect your baby, but you should always get medical advice from a professional such as your midwife to be absolutely sure.

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A female reader, PoSiOnKiSS United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

PoSiOnKiSS agony auntYour best off asking your midwife as she will be able to give you all the answers you want. I bet shes been asked it before aswell. And she`ll be able to reassure you with maybe a few checks.

And ive no idea what 'nut' means but im guessing it means he ejeculated into you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

It is not dangerous for you or your baby. The only thing that may happen is that you could start in labour a little earlier than expected. Male semen has properties (prostaglandins) in the fluid that softens the lining of the womb. It is the most natural remedy for overdue babies and some midwives recommend it. If it doesn't hurt you (if he's not pushing in too far and or the position you use is comfortable) then go ahead and enjoy it! I am not a doctor or nurse and am giving this advise purely from experience.

Loking at your relationship from another point of view. Your boyfriend should have withdrawn whenyou asked him to. His selfish feelings for not withdrawing is probably why you got pregnant in the firs place!

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A male reader, SumYungGuy United States +, writes (4 August 2007):

SumYungGuy agony auntHis 'nut' will not harm the baby. At all.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

hlskitten agony auntNut? Not too sure what that is but i assume its ejaculate?

If so, its fine. Wont cause any harm at all! Relax!

All the best with the babby!

C xxxxx

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