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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 April 2007):
 I think he has a lot of integrity to hold his tongue if he is not quite there yet, so I would respect his silence and not push the issue. Now that he knows where you stand, he will, in his own time, let you know how he feels (I know, easier said than done). I agree with Ariel - it means you know when you do hear it from him, he really means it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): i have only had been in one relationship. there were many things running through my head when my ex first told me he loved me. although, i knew i loved him ... i just didn't say it back to him that day. i have never had anyone telling me that they loved me so it was a shock to me when he first said it. it took me a few days. give him some time. he'll come around. i am sure :)
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reader, Farris  +, writes (1 April 2007):
 It could mean a wide plethora of things... You should ask him directly what it meant, it's the only real way to know!
Try to be okay with it if he says he doesn't feel that way yet; It doesn't mean that he never will! Also, he might just not be ready to say so... But either way, the pause he made simply means that he's not quite where you are yet and this doesn't have to be a bad thing.
Just ask him and then you can be sure where he is, so you can both be more comfortable with the relationship.
Good luck & Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): That he's doesn't love you yet. But you'll know eventually when he does.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (1 April 2007):
 This means here is a lot for you to think of.
Maybe is a tricky word, but you start thinking.
Maybe he didn't expect to hear you saying it and was shocked.
Maybe he is preoccupied with something at this stage of life.
Leave it AS IS unless you are not satisfied with what you got in this relationship and want more; otherwise move on.
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