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I thought things were going well and now we've split up

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Question - (22 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2007)
A female United States age 16-17, ihatelife123 writes:

its over between me and my bf so now we cant ven text or do anythin with each other so what do i do now im in a slump because i thought everything was going well till this and now look were it got me im hurt and comfused what do i do now

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A male reader, Cal Faroe Islands +, writes (22 December 2007):

U can start talking 2 other guys one example is me or anyone else u want to

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A female reader, lilacutie United States +, writes (22 December 2007):

lilacutie agony auntI know people are saying that you should just move on but maybe you don't want to. You need to follow your heart and do what's best for you. If you really like him and he makes you happy then you should try to get him back. Here's how...play hard to get, do not text him, don't talk to him first, act cool and like it doesn't matter to you. If you can have him back then this will probably drive him crazy and he will start talking to you again. Flirt with him, let him know that you are interested without putting any pressure on him. If you do get him back, i know the biggest mistake that i made was being too serious, have fun and relax.

If you want to move on then start hanging out with friends and other guys. Whenever you start to think about him then try and distract yourself.Right now eat lots of chocolate it will make you feel better.:-)

Having a plan always made me feel better, i hope it works for you.

Good Luck

Lilacutie

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A female reader, dearkelja United States + , writes (22 December 2007):

dearkelja agony auntI am sorry about the loss your your boyfriend.

The problem is that you have put too much stock in your boyfriend relationship. At your age you should have girlfriends that you can do stuff with. One thing you need to learn is that boyfriends will come and go in your life. Girlfriends will always be there for you. And if you had some of those now you wouldn't "hate life" or not be able to pick yourself up. They would do that for you. Forget finding another boy, find something golden, girlfriends.

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A female reader, bleh222 United States +, writes (22 December 2007):

bleh222 agony auntwell you can't do anything but try and get over him.. if he doesn't want anything anymore then you can't make him. i know it's hard but you need to move on.

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