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writes:The other day I was on a date with a friend of mine who I'm kind of seeing casually at the moment. Everything with that is going just fine, but something she said to me really puzzled me. Now I'm not really great at being able to read body language and such so maybe this is a no-brainer, but...As we were making out I would sometimes caress her face. I like being somewhat romantic when I'm with a girl and I kind of enjoy the touch of intimacy I find it adds. At one point she commented that I was giving her mixed signals b/c me touching her face "isn't a 'I want to stick my dick in you,' signal." (Her words, not mine).Well I stopped after that point and we continued fooling around for a while and it hasn't really been much of an issue. But I just really got to wondering if all girls feel the same as her or if that's just her taste.Girls, do you find a guy touching and caressing your face romantic? Do you like it? So-so about it? Hate it? I'm just really curious because when I just go with what I'm feeling that's something I find very sensual. But I don't want to do it if it's a turn off for the girl. Reply to this Question
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (12 January 2014):
Dear OP,
I agree with Cindycares.. her problem was not the gesture itself, but that it came from someone she only sees as a f**kbuddy. So the whole point is NOT to be too romantic and relationship-like, right?
If you act to romantically in such a scenario, it really IS confusing and it might end with someone getting hurt. That's why I don't do FWB, this confusion is very likely to occur, because it's kind of hard to have great sex for a certain time without developing any feelings. At least for me, it is.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 January 2014):
 She did not say that she did not like it, she said you are sendig her mixed signals.
Caressing someone?s face IS also sensual, but it is widely seen as a loving, tender gesture, one which conveys feelings of affection and emotional closeness.
So, much more than just an I want to stick my dick in you signal.
Since things are casual with this friend ( with benefots ) of yours, she probably does not expect a lot of tenderness from you and gets confused when you signal something which does not mean only attraction and desire but also affection.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 January 2014):
I like it when a guy touches my face...and if you're making out, I would assume the guy is thinking he wants to
"stick his dick in me" whether he's touching my face or not. It's just her, not every girl.
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