| I thought I didnt have romantic feelings for her anymore but now I wonder if I really do love her? |
| | Question - (21 July 2009) | 0 Answers - (Newest, ) | A
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writes:ok the story is really interesting ...long story short ..i dumped my gf cuz i didnt have romantic feelings for her but only loved her as my bestest friend which i realised really very late ...our relationship was for 9 months... we were friends after that and kept meeting after the breakup ...but it has took us long time to heal and she was obsessed with me ...it was a big impact as i care for her more than my life i mean it! she means a lot to me so do i(she was crazy about me)...today when i met her i told her that i didnt have those kinda feelings for her when we were going around at taht time(i mean love her very much but those romantic feelings or intimacy is missing rather im not attracted to her im confused)..she's practical and is ok with it ...she said we can still be friends ..its ok with me as we are so close...but when i came back home i was feeling so sick at heart! i miss her so much and feel like crying! she said she has forgiven me but i have mixed feelings of guilt of hurting such a caring and sweet girl and fear of losing her if at all i really love her !! we have sorted it out and discussed about it a thousand times after breakup for several hours that even if i go back and tell her i love her that wont make any sense now ...but do i love her ? Reply to this Question
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