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writes:I'm an 18 year old male in a happy and stable relationship of 7 months, with strong sexual intimacy, but I am still deeply worried about one part of me- my penis and its 'phimosis'.My penis is quite big, but it has an annoying thin strip of skin which connects the inner part to the foreskin, meaning on one side it fully retracts but on the other it hardly does. I have learned through internet searches that this is caused by my masturbating technique (lying on my front and rubbing, rather than the traditional method). I have had sex a few times with my girlfriend and while it does tire me out (!!) I never really feel it (this is while wearing condoms too). In all honesty I think I've have never ejaculated during sex. Although my girlfriend doesn't mind, it does sometime lower my self esteem, knowing I can make her come but not myself.Is there any way to treat this? I've tried practising masturbating using the traditional loose-fist method and it doesn't feel anywhere as good, and I soon fall in to temptation and go back to my old ways. I admit my relationship is very healthy and I am extremely lucky to find a girl who puts up with this, but I would be so grateful for help towards a solution. Thanks
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reader, Dr. Reality  +, writes (13 July 2010):
If I am picturing this correctly you are needing a rubbing stimulation when you masturbate. I admit I have never tried this but have you thought of something like a sock that would rub and you are on your back? Maybe even a chamois cloth wrapped around it.
As for the GF, I always rub on her canal for her pleasure but it could be for both of you. Straddle your partner and grab your meat whistle and rub into her vagina then up to her clitoris, back and forth. Getting her to handle things for you is also an idea that could work. I do it to tease her but you may have other aspirations. And if you dont cum then lose the condoms.
Remember, masturbation is not a substitute for sex. It should be rightfully enjoyed on its own merit.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (13 July 2010):
 perhaps stop masterbating for awhile, try it out. see if your built up sexual tension gets you to cum with her.
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