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writes: I have a girlfriend, but i think the only reason she is going out with me is because she just wants a bf to be cool, what should I do???? Reply to this Question |
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reader, martini  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 Let's say she IS using you to look cool. Then what? WHAT do YOU want to do? Do you want to stay with her, or leave? You'll probably pick to stay with her.
Yeah you can talk to her about it, but in the end, what is the ultimate thing you want to do?
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 You need to talk to her and find out what she feels for you, everyone deserves to be with someone that is with them because they want to be with them for who they are not for what they can get or acheive out of it.
I believe we have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful and appreciate them properly, the right one will come along and be with you for the right reasons.
Good luck :o)
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (1 October 2006):
 you should always be with some one through there personalitie and if your sure thats the reason shes with you then what shes doing is useing you and while your allowing that to happen it will adventually tear you apart emotionally! why not ask her why shes with you! if you are 100%sure thats the reason then i would advice you to end it as nobody deserves to be used it only makes you feel worthless in the end and can some times have an affect in your future ralationships!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (1 October 2006):
 Id say ask her! Just come plain out and ask why she wants to be with you! If shes only with you for that reason then get rid of her and find someone that wants you for you! It will only end in tears if you stay with her for the sake of appearances!
Go find a girl that really likes you and wants to be with you its a whole lot more fun that way!
Take care the right girl will come along! x x
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