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I think she has a new guy but she's afraid to tell because it might hurt me! Any advice?

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Question - (21 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

i heard a rumor last week that my ex girlfriend has a new lad i told her about the rumor and she claims it's all bull s**t. but when i txt her it take's her a good 10 - 15 mintutes to txt me and sometime's there's only a few word's.

i saw her on tuesday last and she told me she's just sitting in the house alone watching alot of tv and falling asleep.

do u think she could have a new guy but doesn't wanna tell me because she's know it will hurt me?

or

do u think she's trying to get over me?

she's getting her own place soon her brother is sorting it all out 4 her. and now she want's to transfer from her work's (near me) and want's to move to the town base (where her brother live's) do u think she's trying to get away from me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

You have to let go sometimes! She sounds like is trying to get over you in her way and you can't let go. Please don't pester her if it is over. you won't make matters any better. She probably has met someone else and is saving your feelings. Which is good of her but at the end of the day she does have a life and she is free to go out with just who she likes.

Take care and have a good Christmas.

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

I think you may have still feelings for her. I wonder if she still feels the same since you both still talk to eachother, but i think to her it's just a friendship. But you have to look back on "why" you broke up.The relationship you once had is lost meaning it's broken, no reason to waste your life, worrying what your ex is doing with hers, your not in "her life" it anymore. Let her do what she wants.

You are worried that you think she will hurt you? If she tells you about a new boyfriend she has...(chances are she is with the guy and doesn't want you bugging her) And Well wouldn't your break-up hurt even more? She's NOT with you anymore of course she is over you, what you had is broken.

It's time for you to go separate ways, to run your own life. Meet new people and maybe even a new love interest.

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