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writes:Hi I'm 16.I think that sex is disgusting and I'm not to keen on kissing either. Am I the only one and is there any chance of me finding a proper relationship?help and thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): I'm a 22 year old male and I think sex is disgusting. There are times when a sexual urge arises for me, and I have had a fair amount of sex in my lifetime, but it's getting more and more difficult for me to overcome the gross factor. I've wondered about an issue I've had for a while now. I am definitely not attracted to men, but I am not much attracted to women either! It seems that having sex with anyone (either sex) seems strange and not quite right. Yikes - destined to be alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Hey I think *ex is sooooo disgusting. I accidently saw my parents about to do it (my dad put his hands on my mum's hips and they were tightly together standing up) and I felt like throwing up! I hated them and myself whenever I see something close to *ex. Humans are over populated in this world anyway- sooner or later we will die out- we should die out. We're so selfish to all the other creatures on earth. And I'D LOVE to have a best friend who thinks about sex the same way as me.
I think as long as you have a very best friend who's always there for you, you won't even have to bother about finding a proper relationship. Friendship before sex and all that crap. :)
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reader, stormfront73  +, writes (25 March 2008):
Don't worry about a thing. I am a 34 year old male with some sort of mental problem. I am straight and enjoy women very much, but I hate sex! It makes me sick as hell to even think about. It is something I have always been afflicted with, but thought I would some day out grow. Wrong. It makes me throw up today just as it has my whole life. And now comes the real challenge. I am currently seeing a girl who wants us to sleep together immediately if not sooner. I have not told her about me being terrified and disgusted by that unspeakable act called sex. She'll probably get pissed and just leave eventually. For now, I've told her it's this medication I'm on that's causing me not to be able to fuction in bed, so to speak. That is only buying me a little time. She is even trying to score me some Viagara! But, avoiding the issue will only take me so far. The truth will come out, and she will ridicule me to death for it. Call me a freak of nature, stuff like that. So, don't worry. It could be worse! You could be me!
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reader, LYDIA3  +, writes (8 March 2008):
Here's the long answer to the short question. Sex can be disgusting. It is disgusting when the whole world continues to talk about it obsessively as if it is the most important activity that everyone should be doing. In my opinion, sex has become the world's most important topic of discussion because it is a money spinner and people want to feel the buzz that goes with having lots of sex and yet they rarely find what they are looking for. The truth is, sex becomes disgusting for a girl when there is no sensitivity involved, and the activity becomes a function like having a shower every day. And if a girl ends up sleeping with a man who does not connect with her way of thinking, she is going to get extremely upset and emotionally distraught. Many girls hope for something very special and exciting when they become intimate with a man for the first time, or any time for that matter. There are plenty of women who are very disillusioned with sex because so many men simply do not understand their thoughts, emotions or sexual chemistry. This primitive lack of sexual knowledge is the fault of many ignorant mothers and fathers who do not teach their sons self respect; self respect in men is mirrored towards women. The sons of such mothers, make lousy sexual partners; they don't know how to talk to a nice girl properly nor do they have anything useful to offer her so they view getting her into bed as a sort "achievement". That "achievement" never lasts which is the reason why women suffer such incredible disappointment when having sex with these types of men. If a girl entertains thoughts of disgust about sex it is probably because she has encountered boys/men who have nothing worthwhile to offer. Boys who like to read widely, who have been brought up to care for animals and family members, who know how to fix things and build stuff, boys who love music and like nature, who like to invent and create,these are the boys who will be more likely to view sex as something special. Strangely enough,the quieter, more sensitive boys, who get accused of "being gay" at school may make better sexual partners for girls than the bossy, cool thugs. If a girl has strong values or is very romantic at heart, she has to find a man who is on the same plane of thought as herself or her sexual experience will be emotionally disappointing and even revolting. There is nothing worse for a girl who would like to be loved, than being with a boy who starts giving her loving sex and in the middle of it, he announces: "oops he has to go to the toilet first" or "I s'pose I had better take a shower first". That is offensive and destructive for the female sexual experience and yet it happens to many, too often! Sex for girls and women is a mental activity before anything physical can happen. Many men simply fail to understand this particularly young men who are out to notch their belts. They know nothing about how estrogen and progesterone hormones affect girls' libido neither do they comprehend the magnitude of destruction that they can cause them by not taking time. IF a girl's mind contains thoughts of revulsion towards sex because some boy stuck his tongue in her mouth when she did not want that, then she is right to feel grossed out by that experience. It is very gross when deep down she knows he doesn't love her to bits and she is just another female animal with whom to mate with. Her instincts are telling her he's not right for her. It is better that she goes with her gut feeling. That feeling of revulsion is a protective mechanism so she should never feel as if she is "abnormal" because she doesn't like him being gross. There are plenty of girls who get into disastrous relationships or end up seriously disappointed by their sexual experiences or even accidentally pregnant because they didn't think twice about who they got involved with.It is wrong of other people to criticize a girl who doesn't want to "explore sex" with some barbarian. Very wrong. That in my opinion is a disgusting thing for any boy or man (or girl for that matter)to do. We live in a world of choices and above all, girls should have the confidence to choose NOT to have sex if they don't want to. Finding a proper relationship with a bloke is not easy. The best thing for a girl to do is to become very clever at something and raise her self esteem to the max. When she does well in her life, goes to university, dresses well, finds an interesting job, good income and can afford a home of her own, the good types of boys and men will notice her and she will certainly not be left on the shelf. The good types of boys and men,also have self respect and they have well-paying jobs. They will want a girl who mirrors what they feel themselves. Men who are educated, are likely to be civilized in their attitudes towards people and therefore more sensitive to women's sexual needs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): well if its with someone you truly love and they feel the same way then its ok ~ if its not then its just like filthy cockaroaches ~ meantime many just dont care to wait till they get married ~ many are doing it like pigs and filty roaches ,it is discusting how there is porn and how many unwanted pregnant happenings women have more of a responsabilty cause they can get pregnant men cant if women say no to porn then there will be none of it around it is absolute discrace
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): I think viewing sex as gross is a reaction to the media portrayal of sex and the clueless people who replicate that in real life. So in that sense I think a lot of the people here are very sensible. Lust is dirty, evil and ugly. No one wants to have sex and feel dirty. On the other hand sex is an energy unto itself. When its the proper time to have sex you know it. Its like a world unto itself, its a gift. It's BEAUTIFUL to explore that with the right person. I think seeing the ugly side of sex is a sign of positive discrimination and intelligence because theres so much of the ugly side of it out there. I commend the posters and wish them that they keep an open mind so they can experience only the nice things of life. Including positive sexuality.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): i'm 21 and i am single and a virgin and i think sex is disgusting aswell. I cant believe people like sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Yes you can have a proper relationship without sex. Sex is absolutely disgusting! I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 5 years. We are very much in love, but neither of us want sex. We dont even sleep in the same bed!! Its a fantastic relationship! We have only ever kissed 4 times in 5 years too! So, forget what these perverts who thnk sex is "a natural act ejoyed by 2 people," its not! Its totally gross and sick and these people should be locked up in an institution. So, go ahead and enjoy your sex free life!! ITS THE PERFECT LIFE!!
Steve, a 37 year old virgin (and extremly proud!!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): I know lots of people who love sex and I know lots of people who find it disgusting. I feel sad for neither for we dictate our own actions and since we're all unique, it creates unique and different ideas. I like to think that people not wanting sex can be a good thing for the reason that its something different from people wanting sex. Diversity should be embraced not discouraged. So find someone who likes to talk back. My biggest suggestion would be to get a broader view of the world and more importantly to realize different perspectives and try to understand those different perspectives. A good situational understanding gives you a great leg up in this world and keeps you being diplomatic and open minded which is something that gets rarer each day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Hi there, I am 18 and have had sex, becuase my boyfriend is like most other guys and can't live without it, however it was painful messy and gross. It groses me out guys bits are so disgusting, I never want sex, kissing is alright if you really love them, but people need to understand it is not the most important things, like the people in tv and movies portray, its disgusting and messy and sinful. I agree with you hopefully we can still find people who respect our feelings, which my boyfriend doesn't :( He doesn't care that I hurt like hell afterwards as long as he gets what he wants, then a few hours later he'll be feeling me up and want more, even though i've been silent and crying with the pain! Stay a virgin its the best things, at least you will be respected by god. And bullshit he gave us genitals to feel pleasure, ive never felt any, and in the bible it is not mentioned- virgin mary- hello-retards who say god gave us them for a reson!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): please... sex is good! It feels good and its your natural sexual organ with the other one ! its completly natural act. Dont be ashame of it...
If you have problems against sex, then fine. Spend your whole life masturbating and good luck finding a relationship...
Lool
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): I am 20 years old and even I think sex is disgusting and never plan on having sex. if you want to procreate then fine-have sex-but this world is over populated enough. And even though you hate sex, you can still find a proper relationship. i've had my boyfriend for almost 2 years and he respects my decision of no sex. you just have to find the right man. you are still 16 and that is pretty young yet, but an adamant decision is very hard to change.
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reader, Bella_Babe57  +, writes (13 October 2007):
 wow, as i was reading the replies i couldnt believe how many people are repulsed by sex! It's a natural act shared between 2 people in love, i dont believe its disgusting but thats my opinion. Considering there are atleast 5 people on this page feeling the same way as you, it will be easy to find a guy who agrees with your views.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): i agree, im 16 and hate the thought of it. if you wanna excite yourself touch yourself, but letting other people do it is disgusting. im prob just young and dont know wat i want but i hope it doesnt happen. its way more complicated then movies make it seem. some people like sex, othrs dont. i respect that as long as they dont critisize the ones that dont like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): To be honest, I do not believe that it is normal for any human being not to like sex, since it is deep programmed in our genes to want to 'reproduce'.
However, you are only 16. Some people, like myself, are just not ready at that age.
You also wrote, that you want to find a proper relationship. This indicates to me, that you have never been in a relationship.
Important is to aks yourself what you want from a relationship and if that what you are looking for is not simply a good friendship. Also, the reason for you lacking sexual atraction maight be that you are bisexual or a lesbian. You should also ask yourself why you find sex disguiting.
In any way, being disgusted by sex is not normal. Maybe with disgusted you just mean that you fell it is strange or weired. Some girls need more time.
I hope you get better,
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): No, I think you're doomed to single life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): It is perfectly normal for you to think that way. There are those of us out there that do not have any sexual attraction and we lead perfectly normal lives. What matters most is that whatever you decide, makes you happy. Remember, do not have sex because someone else wants you to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): I agree. It is repulsive in a lot of ways. With luck, I will never have anything to do with it or romantic relationships in general (just good ol' friendship). Maybe in the future you'll meet somebody who you'll be attracted to and/or comfortable enough with to have a sexual or "intimate" relationship with, maybe not. It doesn't really matter. Sex isn't the be all and end all to life (unless everyone lost interest ;]), and as long as you're content who cares. Don't worry about it--I'm the same way. If you Look you'll always find someone in the same boat as you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): hi i am scotty
i am 19 and never had sex or kissed a girl and dont want to do so it is disgusting when you think of all those germs and STDs. i think people who have sex are dirty and immature. i get people say to me (one day you will have kids) it just pisses me off to think abou it. sex is a disgusting mess and is just an exscuse to be disgusting. i dont want kids ever i want a free life and marriage just fucks it up. kids are annoying and just nag you for things. as far as i am concearned sex stinks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): youre right when you think of sex it is immature and disgusting i hate the smell of tuna fish and i am not catching HIV/AIDS subjection. we have a lot in common there are too many people in the world anyway and people are having kids too young which is totaly pathetic. i like fresh bedding not fishy spunk stains and wet patches. you dont need sex it is not compulsary i am 19 and never kissed a girl and dont plan to either. my life is my own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): I just turned 17 and I am glad I am not the only who thinks sex is sick and disgusting i prefer to live my life without it. its just gross when you think about STD's germs sick ugh THATS RIGHT YOU DONT NEED IT YOU SHOULD FIND SOMEBODY WHO RESPECTS YOUR DECISION ON THAT I also plan to stay virgin for life and no kissing either gonorhea gross. World is overpopulated anyway.
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reader, bubooh +, writes (15 June 2007):
I also think sex is disgusting... kissing is "okay" but cuddling is fun yey~~. I'm 16 too and I've only had long distance relationships. None of those relationships have worked out but I've become a happier and more sociable person in the last few months. I still feel like something is missing though. I'm a girl but I dress and look like a guy, I still like guys though I'm not gay. But most guys don't like me(probably because they think I'm a dude). Even if they did like me they would eventually want to have sex... and I would have to try to convince him/her that imaginary "secks" is much better (the "secks" thing is a long story). It has been very hard for me to find someone to call more than a friend and be close with. I haven’t had a real best friend since I was very young. I don’t want to grow up. I want to stay young forever and spend my time finding someone that will love me but not want to have sex.
I’m very sorry I can’t give you advice, but obviously you aren’t the only one in the world that thinks secks is disgusting. ^_^
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reader, martini  +, writes (5 May 2007):
 You think that sex is disgusting and unnecessary? May I suggest that you cut off your genitalia and hide yourself away in the mountains amidst goats and moss?
Simply put, if you don't like social interactions with other human beings in the form of intimate relationships between two possible lovers, then don't interact with people for that purpose. If you want a partnership between people and yourself, you can create a friendship by suppressing your own urges for deeper intimate companionship, maybe even make it more official by creating a certified corporation. That way, everything is layed out on paper. You won't have to find it disgusting and unnecessary any more. In fact, with that, you won't even have to think you need to do more than what's on paper.
1) Mentioned persons' have the option to accept a weekly outing with me, and choose to pay for own meal and listen to me rant.
2) No possibility of dating which may lead to unnecessary kissing, hugging, holding hands, and disgusting sex.
Actually come to think of it, isn't this asexuality?
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reader, Sue43  +, writes (4 May 2007):
Sex is really a very messy act, plus it's all about sharing body fluids (and possible germs). Kissing is advertised as a sensual act, yet the mouth contains hundreds of gross germs.Meeting a really cool guy is such fun,but the sad part is that he is inevitably going to want to have sex. . . . ho hum, dating is so predictable and boring.Every time a person has sex they give a little bit of themselves away ...... for what? Nope, for me it's disgusting and unnecessary.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): Hi.. I'm 71 and in thinking about my own feelins when I was 16 or so brought back some interesting memories. I think at 16 peer pressure has a lot to do with what actions young people will take. Frankly as a teenager I never heard of anyone say that sex was discusting and that kissing was not an enjoyable experiance. I can say from my perspective that my wife and I enjoy a great physical relationship that includes a lot of tender feelings..touching and yes even the occasional sexual act. All rewarding and all part of a natural exchange of sharing one with another. Giving of oneself to another is the ultimate relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): At first I thought I was the only one who thought this way, but I guess not. I've always thought that sex is disgusting, and I feel so sorry for people who think that life is incomplete without it. I'm 25, still a virgin, never been in a relationship, and you know what? That's just how I like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): There is nothing wrong with you. This is a personal choice. To have sex and to not have it is your decision for whatever reasons you choose.
I wasn't keen on dating, let alone kissing and definitely not sex, when I was 16. So to me, it seems like it is a natural process or decision. We do not all need to be sex crazed when we are youth. We do not all need to be having sex to be normal or natural. We do not all need to be adults who want,crave, need sex.
Sheesh.
You will come to know what sex means, you get to decide what it means to you and with this new knowledge will come trust in yourself, faith in yourself, and with time, when you are ready-sex can be something that is enjoyable with that special someone you love-like a wife.
Yes I had to put that last bit in there from a Mom's perspective.
Holding hands and building friendships matter more to even married couples anyways. Intamacy doesn't always mean sex.
All things in time.
Best Wishes kiddo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): Sex is a natural experience that God created for us to enjoy with the one person that we choose. If you don't want sex, there is something wrong with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): I'm 34 years old and a virgin. You know what? I love it that way. too many people seem to think that sex is the be all and end of all of life. It creates life but does little else. Despite what people in so called "real relationships" say. Does everyone enjoy sex? NO. Does everyone want it? NO.
To the people that do, I'm happy for you BUT please don't tell me that sex is this or that just becasue you like it. Like the original poster I find the concept to be gross beyonmd the definition of that term. Exchanging bodily fluids like saliva is downright disgusting and as a result I have no desire to "be" with anyone ever. There are many more things in life than sex. Think about it this way, no unwanted pregnancy, no std's, no hangups. Perfect life for me. A relationship with anyone should not revolve around sex. If it does than that is all these people really have and that is pathetic. Find someone who relates to you in every other way and you'll live a long happy life. Sex free and disease free.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): I think most of you are missing the point. Sex is a physical thing, and perhaps thats why you people think it is disgusting, but biologically it is... however, spritually and emotionally, sex transforms to the term "making love". Simply because two beings feel connected on a higher level of bliss, whilst fullfilling our natural needs and desires. Some people dont believe in love, either because they have had a cold harsh background, or have been abused in some way, or simply are jealous of other people getting the good stuff so to speak. So if you do not like sex, dont put it onto other people, its just human nature.
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reader, Dr Pete + ♥, writes (24 November 2006):
 Aww - you're only 16. People are being forced to grow up too quickly. I think your current aversion to sex and kissing will be a good thing for you. I don't think it will last, you will find those feelings when you meet, and trust, the right kind of guy.
At your age you are going to meet a huge amount of guys that just want to have sex and won't necessarily care about you. Because you want other things from a potential relationship, you will quickly weed out the loosers.
You are an adult in your own right, but you are inexperienced with the adult world. Have strength knowing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, whatsoever. Never let anyone doubt you, or tell you otherwise and you shall find yourself a great relationship, I have no doubt of that! Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): I am seventeen and also find sex and kissing disgusting. I always have and I don't see any reason why I should change. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH NOT LIKING SEX! (Then again, at least sex has a purpose. Kissing has none whatsoever.) But who is to decide what a "proper" relationship is? You should find someone who accepts you for who you are. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true, because anyone else would only be pursuing a relationship based on sex and not really because they like you for who you are. If they did, they would never force you to do something you don't like, so don't force -yourself-!
I think love has absolutely nothing to do with sex and the idea that it does is only a social construct. More people should realize that they don't have to be interested in sex, and if they are, they don't have to be interested in it forever or pursue artificial means to keep themselves interested. Anyway, sex is not compulsory. And I just realized that this question was asked over a year ago, but I'm going to post this anyway in the hopes that other people will find it after typing "sex is disgusting" into Google like I did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): RE: A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006)
I'm afraid then you entirely miss the genetic and social factors which tend to make some people asexual, and despite that you are, as I suppose, fully dedicated to sex like to some drug, you don't know much about wide varieties of human sexual behavior nor complex psychological backround of human sexuality in general.
Radomir
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): I would not like to agree with the people that say that sex is disgusting! that is crazy! we all were in a stage in which we were not ready to commit to it. but if the right person was found i bet there would be no doubt about it. + if you are scared of it dont force it, but if you cant get it dont hate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): Hey there. I'm a 27 years old male from somewhere in Eastern Europe. I found this page by just randomly typing "sex" and "disgusting" into google just for fun.So you got a picture.In my age of 27 I'm still a virgin, never had a girlfriend and heck, I love it that way. I condemn destructive female lust, despite that I've been raised by really emancipated woman who didn't have thing very easy and life, and my conservative grandparents. So in essence, I am a feminist and I'm convinced that females are the more perfect gender, however that doesn't mean I will submit to their whims and become their obedient lapdog.I'm also good in letting girls who are after me down.Some of them are good persons, but I don't really want a sexual relationship. Odd thing is, for some of them just pure friendship isn't enough and as soon as they realize that, they fall off. Good riddance then. Our bodies are just flesh and I gladly leave the pleasure of flesh and sexual reproduction to lower primates. There are too many humans on this planet anyway.By the way, you can meet plenty of people like us at www.asexuality.org Take care everybody.Radomir,Slovak Republic
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reader, pegasus +, writes (10 November 2006):
No your not the only one, im 23 and still do. I see a lot of 16 year olds are saying the same thing and replies are genereally ''theyll grow out of it' i bloody hope so cos its really inconvenient...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): you are definately not the only one!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): I think it is so too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): Hello, My name is Rimmer66, I agree with the initial poster. I am honest to admit that I am the same way. I am glad to see I am not the only one and that people of all ages here agree. I will not reveal my age but I am between 20 and 30. I think sex (with another person) IS disgusting. Just the smell, secretions and all the bacteria found on genital organs turns me off. Like most of you here I do get aroused don't get me wrong but I don't have this obsession like most guys to want to "do it". Most if not ALL girls are obsessed with sex and ALL girls want is sex which is why I think most girls are sluts anyways. Rarely will you find a girl you can be friends with and spend the rest of your life with, without having sex. If you don't give it to them, they go get it elsewhere and dump you. I don't like the idea of kissing either (exchange of secretions/saliva etc) personally it all disgusts me and makes me gag. I think women are HYPOCRITES, and sex has NOTHING to do with love. Also I f*cking hate kids, I think kids are annoying and obnoxious so I NEVER want to have kids in my bloody life - I mean we are guys afterall, and yes eventhough we don't want to have sex with someone else, there is always this natural need of wanting to releave ourselves (can't escape that) ThaT's what it is for us guys, you do it, you come and you are releaved....nothing to do with love there.maybe girls it's different, but anyways I'm glad I'm not the only one. I mean yes girls demand honest guys, funny guys and shit but face it, looks is VERY important for a girl, and face it, women in their 20's, late 30's become very horny and they would never engage with a guy who "does not want sex"
ThaT's my 2 cents. To all you people here who replied don't feel bad about it you should keep on drawing, playing music and harvesting a farm and maybe buy a cattle, but don't give in to peer pressure STAY THAT WAY. I wish I could find a lady that shares my same opinions.
Regards,
Rimmer 66 (A.k.a James K.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2006): Heh, you're not the only one.
I am 16 also, but I cannot figure out what the hubbub is about "relationships" and whatnot. To me, there is nothing more frightening than striking up a deep relationship with someone. I don't know why; it just scares the heck out of me!
Don't get me wrong, I have tons of friends. And most of them happen to be girls. But I just can't figure out why I don't feel the same way as everyone else... So instead, I focus all my time on creative things, like writing and drawing.
So yeah... If you don't feel that way, perhaps you're wired differently. Maybe you were meant to serve a different purpose in your life, one other than simply passing on your genes. If so, then get to work on that novel/song/game/play/dance routine/whatever!! That could be your child, instead of a biological one...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): This is all just wonderful
Why can't there be more of you people
The world is becoming overpopulated as it is
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006): Hi, I'm 21 and have never had a g/f or kissed a girl. So no you are not the only one to have these feelings, but it is probably quite rare. I would check out this Wikipedia page: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Non-sexuality (check out 'Romantic Friendships'). As for myself, I used to be very shy around girls, but I don't have that problem anymore. I am a decent, honest guy and a lot of people can't understand why I'm single as they say I am a handsome young man. To be honest I am just not bothered about sex, I see it as a form of escapism and even having a relationship (sexual or non-sexual) as taking away my freedom and independence. I do still get aroused, but that is as far as my sexual desire goes. I'm not exactly sure what I should do about it other than wait for a true love...if that ever happens?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): hey im 27 and i havent had sex. i had one girlfriend when i was 17 and so far that has been about it. it use to trouble me but not any more. most of the girls i met when i was 18 or 19 werent very accepting and cause i was so shy they used to be very mean and would get pissed off i just thought what twits they were. these days i would much rather go and surf or play music. so many people are so obsessed about it
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