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writes:I've been best friends with this boy for 8 years and last year he told me he liked me, we spoke about it and i said i wouldnt go out with him because i see him as a friend only now i've started to think about him a lot more than i should, and like whenever i'm upset or something all i want to do is talk to him. I dont want to go out with him because i dont like him like that and it would probably ruin the friendship afterwards. what do i do?
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (15 June 2012):
 HI
I can understand your struggle with this one. you have one part of you thinking maybe every great relationship stems from great friendship, then the other part saying but what if it dont work out? Do yourself a favour and dont live by what if's, go for it life is far to short for what if's. you will only regret it if he finds someone else one day and gets married .
Mandy x
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (15 June 2012):
 If you really consider him a friend let it be so..afterall all good relationship begins with a friendship...don't boggle yourself with so many things..go with the flow and everything will fall in place..is love is to happen between you two it will happen no matter how hard you try not to let it happen..just enjoy life and don't let confusion creep in..all the best
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