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I think my uncle is hitting on me

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Question - (27 November 2017) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2017)
A female Russian Federation age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I think my uncle is attracted to me.

First of all, excuse my English please :(

Unfortunately, it’s not my first language.

So, the problem is that my uncle’s brother (well, probably my other “uncle”, huh?) is acting strange. Well, you may think that I’m EXTRA suspicious, but that’s how I feel whenever he’s around.

He’s 30 y.o. He had a divorce 3 months ago. And we barely talked until his cousin flew from Korea abd stayed with me. After a while, the three of us went out almost every night. We had so much fun! And I thought that it will stop the moment his cousin will come back to Korea. But, it’s been around 5 days since she left and he wouldn’t stop text me. Yesterday we went to the cinema, and he was touching me like: holding my elbow and guiding me to the destination, because I didn’t know where to go, or shaking my arm and back while we talk. Oh, and there was a moment when a stranger said smthng like “...for you and especially your girlfriend..” I was waiting till he would say “NO! She’s my niece (or smthng)” but he did not!!! I know, I’m extra :(

And, today I received a message from him like “Hi! Are you free today? My friends and I are going out somewhere to eat. I would like you to come with me :) “ I said that I’m busy showing grandma the mall and stuff, and he said that he will come and see me tomorrow. I don’t know... on one hand, he may be just a friendly uncle who’s lonely (?), but on the other, he has a lot of friends (and girls) and why would he invite me to go out with his friends? Like they are in their 30s and I’m only 19. What should I do? I feel confused. (By the way, he was the one who decided to have a divorce)

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A female reader, Dionee' South Africa +, writes (30 November 2017):

Dionee' agony auntThe only thing that matters here is that he is making you feel uneasy and uncomfortable and that, in my opinion, is not ok.

You should let him know exactly how you feel and limit contact with him thereafter because this is a bit much.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2017):

N91 agony auntIf you feel uncomfortable I would directly tell him how he's making you feel. If you do that and nothing changes I would bring it to the attention of a family member and hopefully he will back off.

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