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*DontGiveUpEasily
writes:i think my girlfriend is so "in" with this lesbian friend of hers, i gave my girl a ring, a promise ring, so that when we get older we'll be together or something. Suddenly this lesbian chat me in some social network site and asks me about her, i told the lesbian about giving my girl the ring (my girlfriend and i fought about not telling me something that i should know), i think my girlfriend panicked and said "please don't tell her (the lesbian) about the ring please!" but it's too late, i already told her about the ring. She got angry, post a status message in her profile about me always ruining everything for her. Then having this status after that, "Even if he gives me anything, you're the one i love. I love you!" i noticed the situation so i think she has some mutual relationship about this lesbian, the problem is.. How would i spill out the truth from my girlfriend, i wanna know everything from the day she stopped sending text messages and calls until i asked her about what's the connection of the ring and her lesbian friend..i would also ask how to get her back in my armsplease help me, i am not desperate to get her like i am obsessed, i only want her to tell me everything if she really hides something. I don't want her to suffer this, i know she is suffering something inside, i don't want myself to suffer eitherThanks Guys I would Really appreciate your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): You are a guy and your girlfriend is presumably a girl. You said you think she's in love with her lesbian friend, which, to me, insinuates that perhaps your girlfriend is trying to figure out her sexuality, whether she's interested in women, men or both.
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reader, iDontGiveUpEasily +, writes (3 November 2010):
iDontGiveUpEasily is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni asked her but the situation seemed became slanted, it got worse.. I fought with her lesbian friend out of my panicking, I didn't controlled myself.. She didn't took sides (I think), she yaps about finding out my true attitude "Oh so that's what your real color is" but she didn't even looked at herself and her friend if you know what I mean.
It's like, she's only think about herself, being selfish.. She doesn't think of what will "hiding something to me" would do to both our relationship and her relationship with her friend, as long as she's happy about bonding with people.
She's the approachable type, it's easy to get along with her.. But she knows her limits, but.. I am still confused if she is really in a "relationship" with this lesbian..
it's hard to determine, especially I can't see her often because of the distance.. we are in a not-so-long distance relationship.. her parents are over protected, way-over protective, and she's religious person.. In her religion, people can't have a relationship with other religion..
..I don't know what I am saying now.. damn..
@jmc930 - what do you mean about not knowing how she feels about her sexuality?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): I think you have to talk to your girlfriend. She made a status about you on Facebook and made a big deal out of you not talking to her lesbian friend about the ring. Ask her what is going on and why it's a big deal to her.
If it's a bust and your girl would rather be with her lesbian friend or doesn't know how she feels about her sexuality, it's OK to be sad and hurt, but you should definitely move on. According to your profile, you are only 16 or 17, so there is plenty of time in life to find someone that better fits with who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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