A
female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:I'm so fed up, I think I'm being used by my friend. I'm always there for her yet she is never there for me. The number of times I have dropped everything and gone to see her and cheer her up etc. Yet when I need a friend to talk things through with she's not there. How do I tell her about this without ruining our friendship completely? I love her dearly but I've just about reached the end of my teather on this one. Any advice would be great, thanks in advance! Reply to this Question |
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Next time she isn't there for you call her on it. Ask her why when you are always there to hear her out. The only reason why people can use and take advantage of you is because you let them.
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female
reader, evelangel  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 This one for me is pretty easy. I was bullied badly at school but when this happend my friends would run and they wernt there if i needed someone to talk to they werent there.But when they needed me i was there. it hurt because your giving all your energy to a person you concider a friend and there not giving anything back in return.I think you should be honest tell her how you feel word for word, and if what happend to me they will probably flip out and yell and scream, but that is only them trying to cover what they no is true..If they are your friends they will have a cooling of period then be back with you in no time. and hopfully helping you out.
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