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writes:my ex and i have been divorced for 2 years, he is in another relationship and very unsettled, we have an intimate relationship that he "hides" from this woman, we still love each other, am i wasting my time waiting for him to take me back and forgive me for leaving?
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reader, Keira9312 +, writes (25 April 2010):
 The man that you say is your ex seems to have strong feelings based on what you have explained. It may be a possibility that he is sensitive or uneasy around this "new woman" and is afraid to talk to her about you. He must truly love you if he doesn't want to put you in the middle of a quarrel. Most of the love between you comes from how long you have been together, whether you are just friends or in love. If he really understands you and matches with your personality, then he will build up the courage to break it to his other woman.
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reader, judeywoodeyrocks  +, writes (25 April 2010):
If his love for you is strong enough, then he will leave the woman that he is with now and get back with you. just keep holding on and hoping. do things that will make him realise that it is you that he wants, and make sure that he knows that you want him. when you have him back, just start again fresh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): That's a question only you can answer. If you love him and he loves you, then maybe it is not a waste of time. Marriage is a huge deal. Many marriages end in divorce, its not easy for either party. Oftentimes, people seek rebound relationships to help soften the blow of the break up. Maybe you both have realised that divorce wasn't the right option and that you do love each other. That happens to alot of couples and they reconcile eventually. Whether it is a waste of time or not depends on a lot of things. Why did you both break up to begin with? Was it due to huge character flaws that cannot be fixed eg. cheating, abuse? If that is the case then you both are definitely better off without each other. HOwever, perhaps it was due to other reasons such as immaturity in dealing with everyday issues, one was more focused on his/her career and neglected the needs of the other, etc. For things like these, it is definitely fixable especially if you both realise that you still have feelings for each other. Like I said only you can decide that.
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