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*irl from a far far away land
writes:i'm worried about my sister shes 14 in half and shes going out with a 24 year old. she was scared i was going to tell mom and dad about it so she made me promse to not say anything to them. and i'm worried that hes going to hurt her. she wont tell me anything about what they get up to but shes been skiping school and i found a letter in our room that he had send her it said something about i got money and everything will be fine as soon as we are away from our familys. i worried they are planning to runaway together.please help me someone i worried about her
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reader, blueyedgirl  +, writes (5 November 2009):
Normal 24yr old guys are not interested in 14yr old girls. If he has done anything sexual with her he can and should be prosecuted. I agree with the other aunts, you need to tell your parents, IMMEDIATLY!
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reader, Tisha-1 + ♥, writes (5 November 2009):
 Tell your parents right now--she is putting herself in danger and that trumps any promise you made to her. Just think, if anything should happen and they find out you knew but didn't tell. You would feel guilty for the rest of your life.
Go tell them and let us know that you did, okay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Its important for you to tell your parents despite your promise to your sister. You really can't tell if she would be in danger going with him and you shouldn't take that chance. If you live in the United States, that relationship is not legal anyway. I can't emphasis enough your need to break the promise and go to your parents.
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (5 November 2009):
You need to break that promise if you think she is in danger.
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reader, k_c100 + ♥, writes (5 November 2009):
 Well if she wont talk to you about what is going on then the only thing you can do is tell your parents. I understand she made you promise not to tell them but at the end of the day her safety is at risk here so it is very important you tell them.
Imagine if you dont tell them and she does run away with him - you will never forgive yourself if anything happens to her. So do the right thing and tell your parents, they will be able to sort this out properly.
I hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Please tell your parents immediately. This situation could potentially be very dangerous. Breaking a promise is acceptable if you love your sister and are concerned for her safety. She'll thank you later.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 November 2009):
 Tell your parents immediately, you made a promise that was meant to be broken for your sister's safety sake. She'll thank you later. Talk to Mom and Dad.
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