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I think I'm in love with him, but I don't want to ruin our special friendship.

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Question - (31 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2008)
A female Haiti age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i've been friends with this guy for like a realy long time,he's sweet, sensitive, and everything good, but the problem is im in love with him but he only loves me as a sister. and i cant seem to get him off my mind,

i tried to convince myself that i only like him lik a brother but my hearth says that i am. the problem is we have a realllllyyyy serious relationship and if i go tell him that i like him i think its going to ruin everything, and were so close we sleep on each other we talk about stuff so deep that tears come in my eyes everytime he loves to touch my hair, and many more stuff sometimes im even convinced that he likes me back but if he did then why does he have a girlfriend?

and he can't use her to make me jealous because he's not that type of person to break someones heart

so wat so i do???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008):

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ya i do feel jealous and hurt when he talks about her but he barely metions her!!..

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A male reader, realsimon United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2008):

Hi,

how do you feel when he is with or talks about his Girl friend? If you feel hurt then you like him more than a Sister. You say he plays with your hair that's a sign he likes you. You will never know how much unless you ask, you could always say it in a kinda joke way see how he reacts? Good luck and keep us posted.

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A female reader, Auntiee Amsiee United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2008):

Auntiee Amsiee agony aunthe sounds so similar to my guy lol and we're going to talk on tuesday...you should to you dont want a big what if hanging on your head honeyx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008):

Just tell him the truth, and see wheare the chips lye. If he has feelings for you he will be soft and gentele. You don't want to have regrets 10 years from now if you don't tell him. Just let him know how you feel.... and see where it takes you. Please know I will pray for you sweetie... You deserve True Love!!

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