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writes: What to do? I'm 16 year old, young hispanic male who has fallen in love for the first time and I'm willing to do any thing for my girlfriend ,but I'm not sure if she is the one. This isn't the only question I have, if you are interested in helping me please do. I would surely appreciated. I'm a curious person and I would like to know answers to other question that I have. Thank you if you've helped. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2005): Love, what a word! So hard to define because what may feel like love to you may feel like lust and fun to somone else. So many different emotions to endure.If you have had a few previous birds then you'll know INSIDE if this one is THE ONE! you'll notice a total change in the way you felt before for somone, to now! Im 19 and been with my GF for 2 months, and yes while its only 2 months, none of my previous girlfriends put together have ever made me feel like she does!Everthing i do i want it to be with her.When i don't see her for a few days i get down and feel like crying. Do you? I think the term 'butterflies' is an understatement for love.You can get butterflies watching your favourite team play! I believe it goes beyond that to a point where you feel sick somtimes and it hurts. Agree? Do you constantly think about your GF to a point where it gets annoying because you can't concentrate on anything else,but still find it comforting? Most importantly, does your relationship go deeper than sex? Don't try and love her just because of her body and looks because you'll approach a different conclusion which doesn't consist of true love. Take your time mate, your only young like me, but follow your heart or you'll kick yourself later in life.With the question you've asked, it sounds like your 'falling' for her but your not quite there yet, because if you still need to ask yourself 'am i in love' then you're not yet. X
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reader, trusty +, writes (18 May 2005):
heyi have also fallen in love for the first time, i have been with my boyfriend for over 18months,and after all this time everytime he touches me or kisses me or even looks at me in a daze he makes my heart beat faster, i get excited everytime i am on my way to meet him and i really feel he is the one for me, i beleive a teenagers love is more stronger then what adults can ever experience.depending on how long you have been seeing this girl, give it time, think about how you feel about her, do you feel that you will always be loyal to her and never look at another girl, do you trust your girlfriend? to what extent would you go to, to make her happy. but i cant take a test to find out whether she is the one, if she is the one it will come clear to you eventually that she is. make a real go of it with our girlfriend and see what happens. hope you find the one soon!!
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reader, rphillips +, writes (18 May 2005):
Do you think about your girl all the time? Does you constantly slip in and out of your thoughts? Do you think that you world would fall apart if she was not in it? If you said yes then you are in love and she may be the one for you at this moment in time. The hard part about being 16 is that, well you are 16. And you will have plenty of time to experience all the joys and heartaches that love brings. Loves come and go. Enjoy this love while it lasts. Treat her with respect. Don't lie to her. Be honest. Repect her. Be safe. Enjoy!
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