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I think I'm falling for my best friend!

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Question - (6 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So, here's the situation. I have been dating my current bf for a year and a half. He's such a great boyfriend and he treats me really well and I do love him.

But, me and this guy, who I've known for about a year started getting close about 2 months ago because we were in a show together. Now we are pretty much best friends. We talk about a lot of stuff and we always joke around about dating each other. But lately, when I'm near him, I feel like my whole body is on fire and when he gets really close to me, I just stare into his eyes.

He is currently after this girl and at the beginning I was all for it, but then last night when he told me how much he wanted to kiss her, it didn't sit well with me. Me and him are very similar, like to the core. And we are more than likely always together and I get butterflies just in anticipation to see him.

Now, I'm 22yrs old and a part of me wants to date other people and experience others before I settle down. But there is another part of me that is afraid if I break up with my current bf, I might never see him again. It's so hard because I care for both of them and I wonder what it would be like to date my best friend.

We both agree that we would have a wonderful time together and some say he likes me, and hes just waiting for me to say something, but I am so confused. I haven't made any moves or anything. I am not the cheating kind, I am just very confused.

Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks!

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A male reader, rrated United States +, writes (7 November 2009):

before you do something think about it

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