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male
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:HiI feel I have a slight problem. I feel I am attracted to girls, and would like a relationship (i'm not currently in one), but when i think about having sex with a girl i find attractive/pretty, i don't feel anything, no desire or anything. I do occasionally watch porn, and find it arousing, yet again when i picture myself taking part as such i don't feel any desire then either.Is this normal?
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reader, TasteofIndia  + ♥, writes (23 April 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
I don't think you have anything to worry about. I am guessing that you are a virgin? I think that once you actually get into a sexual situation your body will go with the flow and you'll have an interest. It's perfectly normal not to have sexual thoughts and feelings all the time or even have an interest in sex. I think you're having a hard time picturing yourself doing it because you've never done it.
With the right girl and at the right time your sex drive will open up. That's my guess, at least.
The desire will come... don't worry, sweetness.
xxIndia
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