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writes:I have a problem my husband e-mails his ex and visa versa, always wanting to help her either fix her apt. or anything else its ridiculis the way he goes about it, he tells her if there is anything you need done let me know. I am a jelous person we've been married for seven years. And he also e-mails his friends daughter that he knows for years, teling her that she is extremely beautiful and it won't be long before she finds someone says that with her looks it will be easier for her. This is eating me from the inside, i look at him when he gets home and sometimes i feel like i hate him, he is a very nice guy that will do anything for anyone, but i think he is crossing the line with this women. When i confront him he gets upset and tells me that i am sick! I don't know how much i can take of this, please help, i love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): replicate the behaviour and see how it makes him feel. if he loves u and feels the same about you he will adjust the behaviour. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): Maybe when they were together they were good friends and good friends never die and if he is your husband he obviously married you, right. But you should let him know how you feel about the situation.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (30 April 2009):
 I dont think he should be e-mailing the ex if he is your husband then i think you have a right to be annoyed and if he can't see that this is making you uptight i think secretly he is ignoring it cause to confront it means he has to stop it and i think that is what you tell him to do how would he like you doing this with an ex boyfriend of yours?
Even e-mailing the friends daughter i am thinking she is young right? i think he is secretly getting off on this maybe he has to prove to himself he still has it?
Either way he is being inconsiderate to your feelings here talk this over with him and make it clear you want the e-mails to stop because it is affecting how you feel in this marriage and even though you say your a jealous person i still don't think it is right he is keeping contact with an ex.
Gina
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