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writes:I have been with my bf for 2 years now and the other morning I texted I love you my friend and he is ignoring me now. Im so hurt why the hell would he do that. Its not like I asked hime ti marry me or anything.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (22 August 2012):
 Maybe those words would have been better received in person, and not via text.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2012): Possibly something to with you saying "Love you my friend" ? After all, he assumed you were his girlfriend, not his friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2012): I have to agree with person12345. After 2 years I love yous should have been exchanged a while ago
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reader, katiekate +, writes (21 August 2012):
 This seems very strange to me. Assuming this is the first time the "L" word has been exchanged between you two, I think it's very unreasonable that this would send him running for the hills, especially at your age. You've been together for two years? Is it a committed relationship, or a casual "friends with benefits" kind of thing. If he is your boyfriend, and he has been ignoring you, I suggest you find a new one! He needs to grow up.It is possible that saying "my friend" made him feel weird, like, "why is she calling me her friend? I thought we were in a relationship..." It's strange wording, if you ask me. Maybe he's just distancing himself trying to figure out where he stands? Not sure, but how about you leave him a message, asking him what's going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2012): Hi, I fully agree with her. You should move on if you can't even say I love you.
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reader, TexInTheCity +, writes (21 August 2012):
That's weird! Did you call him or anything like that? Maybe he broke his phone? I dropped mine in the road a couple weeks ago, it took me 2 days before I could get in to get a new one. I posted on FB that it was broken. Can you ask him by email maybe? Or call him at work or something? I mean he's your boyfriend aren't you supposed to be in love?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 August 2012):
 If after two years you still can't say I love you there really is no relationship or future there and never was. You should move on and find someone who can love you.
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