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I tagged him on fb and he didn't respond and now I don't know how to act

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Question - (14 November 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2013)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have a huge crush on a guy who is not in my class in college but he used to show signs of liking me too.even though we dont speak to each other we're frens on fb where he answers only when i speak first.a few days ago i tagged him and some of my friends in a pic where only he didnt respond at all..it was quite disappointing and i felt like a freak and despo in front of him and his friends(with an attitude problem).i dont know how to face him now even if we cross paths..please could you suggest what to do??

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A female reader, llifton United States +, writes (15 November 2013):

llifton agony auntDoes he use Facebook regularly? I often miss posts and comments from others because I just don't really pay attention to fb. Is this possible??

He might just not have gotten it. I ignore things all the time, as well.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (14 November 2013):

You take Facebook way to seriously. Also, if you are hoping for a relationship to develop, you'll probably need to talk with him in real life as Facebook won't do all the work for you.

Forget the Facebook tagging ever happened and make a plan to talk with him or ask him out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2013):

If someone doesn't answer you when you attempt to reach out to them through social media; it's uncertain if that's a sign they're not interested.

You shouldn't get all upset about it. You're acting on a crush, and piling too much emotion on top of it.

Maybe he will come around at some point, and take notice.

If you have approached him only once, and he didn't reply; you're a lot more interested in him, than he is in you.

I wouldn't go out of my way, get all awkward, and bent out of shape because some guy didn't holler back. Plenty more cuties available for you anyway!

He probably didn't take a FB tag seriously, and would prefer a girl with the nerve to approach him in-person.

Another lesson to all you folks hiding behind shyness.

Take a chance and buildup some tolerance to rejection.

That's how you survive the dating-game!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (14 November 2013):

Honeypie agony auntNext time you see him in person say HI! and STOP tagging him in stuff.

Back off a little bit and see if he contacts you.

If he doesn't them MAYBE he isn't into you and you need to accept that. JUST because YOU have a crush on him, doesn't mean he OWES you attention or affection, you know?

If he does contact you, then try and get to know him OFF the FB- meet for coffee or something (not at his house or yours, in public though.)

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