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I suffer from premature ejaculation! How do I satisfy my wife with this problem?

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Question - (12 November 2006) 11 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2011)
A male , *liraza writes:

2 years into marriage, but in this two years i can not satisfy my wife. what can i do now? help me when i have sex with my wife i discharge within 2 minutes. pls, help me

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A male reader, pearl69 Kuwait +, writes (9 March 2011):

Easy tips to satisfy the wife , if you do this she will love you she will die for you, no need for length no need for 10 minutes f###, suck as much as possible and use sex toys, suck back legs, and just f### for 5 minutes, thats enough. She will be satisfied, its true.

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntyou can satisfy your wife with your tounge.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008):

dont worry use capsule 4 longevity they easily available at medical store. use capsule before sex.1hr early ok bye

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007):

Hey relax

Ejaculate 10 to 15 min before sex...

when started heat her up with lots of fore play....

Use some lubrication ...preferably with topical anesthetics which will improve your longevity ..

its all in the mind........go play.........

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007):

i think the main reason why many males aged 18-40 suffer from premature ejeaculation is because of anxiety and rushing into things! try to ejaculate before intercourse as you may find that you can last longer. You could also go see your GP and he/she could describe medication or advice on this matter. Climinax tables are sometimes used to help last long and satisfy your partner.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006):

Thats totaly right if you ejaculate before sex she doesnt even have to know, also try a little mind control, if your wound up on the fact that your with her she'll blow your load before you blow her mind. try oral on her, I like to masterbate secretly with one hand while I focus the other on her, this shortens her oral comitment as far as time and gives you her vagina in a more sensative state. try to search around a bit mate, there are a few "special" places in her not very deep eather that will get her begging, try different paces, porn ruins your confidence because it isnt realistic, fortunately though it is a great place to learn rithym. See what rithym the girl with 20 guys at once likes and take it to the misses. I have found my Wife anyway will be the one tapping out most of the time, and I dint have to premptive mb anymore. CONFIDENCE above all, if you pop early do it out of her so you can resume the oral and clitoral and then when your soldier gets back in the game take to her one more time. I've been married 5 years, my wife and I were responsible adults but now were just nymphos for eachother, above is how we got there ;D watch her responses and pay attention to actual fact not your speculation, most girls like the feeling of their man, just that easy, she chose you bro, just remember that and take your time, enjoy her, she's a woman your a man. if it happens cuddle a bit and in a few minutes get back to it, dont give up.the best part of sex is all the touching. it is after all about YOUR love for eachother. I hope this helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006):

BTW Eddie, that wasn't meant to be offensive. It didn't click in my head.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006):

Media and porn? WTH?!?

Anyway to answer your question, you can try masturbating before having sex with your wife, or you can ask your wife to do things like oral to you to get you off, then have penetrative sex with her after some further foreplay - eg: giving her oral, or fingering her, etc.

Oops, yes, what Sexylinz said.

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (13 November 2006):

eddie agony auntI'm not sure what is considered normal. It varies form couple to couple. Don't think it's like you see in the movies though. Most guys don't last that long and I think most women are glad they don't. Correct me if I'm wrong ladies but that's my opinion. That is one of the big problems with media and porn, it gives people unrealistic expectations.

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A female reader, gustavia Colombia +, writes (12 November 2006):

well, if your wife is telling you she's unsatisfied and unhappy because of this issue, you should see a doctor and both of you perhaps a therapist, or someone you trust. premature ejaculation is a common problem for many men, you are not alone, and it can be fixed with either meds and/or time. you should Definitely talk to your wife, ask her what she wants, and what pleases her; your marriage should not end because of this. good luck

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A reader, sexylinz United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2006):

sexylinz agony aunthey.

there are lots of things that can help your wife. try ejaculating before u have full sex, most men find that this helps them to initally last longer during intercorse.

if this does not work u can always try to make her orgasm through oral sex or even introduce sex toys into your sexual activity. they dont have to be used during solo sex. lost of poeple include them often in their sex lives.

i hope this helps. good luck

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