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writes:About 4 months ago now I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months because I couldn't deal with the stress going on in his/our lives. He had gotten a girl pregnant before he met me and although I knew about it the whole time, it didn't become real to me until it was about due. Now, we still chat occasionally and we don't hate each other. But I'm miserable. I just don't know how to tell if I miss him or if I'm just lonely. I was madly in love with him and I believe that I still do love him. Any advice anyone can offer me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): My dear i can assure you that those two are getting back together especially that theres a child. as long as its not the girl who declared it over. I wuld advisd you to move on § find someone else because you wil just be hurting yoself by communicating with yo ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): I'd leave well alone. You broke up with him for whatever reason. My bf and I broke up 3 years 6 months ago when I was pregnant with our first child, he went sneaking off to his ex for sex etc, I found out and broke up with him. He never seen our first daughter until she was two. I then find his relationship with her didn't last long because she was obsessed with me and my daughter and couldn't let it slide, he had been lonely ever since. We got back together a few months after starting seeing our daughter and I got pregnant again we now have 2 daughters and I hate the girl who interferred and no doubt my daughters will too in the future. I'd keep out of it, there is too much backlash to be had.
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