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writes:hi im 18 i broke up wit my boss 2weeks ago(he is 35 married with 2kids) nobody ever found out about the 4month affair thank god!!!i cannot quit my job coz i signed a contract for 3years so i will quit when the 3years are up but its so awkward at work coz he gives me real evil dirty looks and i dont know whether to give him dirty looks back or be nice to him if i give him dirty looks back people at work will get suspicious so i suppose i just have to smile and put on a face! i cant tell anybody coz we will both get fired and his wife will divorce him and things will go from bad to worse for both of us! im glad im the one who ended the affair but it is very awkward at work but i just have to get over it!!! but to be totally honest i miss him so much and i want him badly he is such a good kisser i know he is bad for me but i miss being with him and the sex was the best i ever got and probably ever will get!!! i cant get him outta my head i am trying to move on i am looking for a boyfrend at the moment so i can try and forget him but i think nobody will be ever as good as him,i know that sounds stupid.i miss him and want to be with him now.im so jeliss coz the wife has him now and they're are going to have a lovely christmas and im all alone now.help!!!!!!!
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (8 December 2006):
 Hi dearie,
You did right. It was a very wrong affair. I know it will be hard at work for sometime seeing him daily but that really is the consequence of the action u took. You just have to bear with it until ur contracts expires.
I know u think he and his wife is going to have a nice christmas. But that is just a farce. You know now that there is nothing happy about that marriage. Infact i feel sorry for his wife.
There wasnt anything more for you in that relationship and u should be happy u are out of it. It was a relationship that was heading nowhere and in time might have worse consequences than the mere torture u have working with him.Im surprised u are contemplating going back to him or even thinking about him.
Take your time, go out with friends. Im sure if u keep ur mind and heart open in no time u will find a man who will be yours alone.im sure that there is going to be someone for u better than him.
Goodluck dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): Oh honey, hind-sight is 20/20. What's done is done. Is there any way you could be transferred to another department, or another building within the company that you are already employed by? That might eleviate the day-to-day tensions that you're going through. You ended the affair for a reason. Could it be that you realized he was never going to leave his wife? If so, don't look back. Yu did the right thing, you knew when it was time to get out and you got out. It would do you good to book yourself with some friends over the holidays and not spend them alone,missing him. Trust me, there are plenty of men out there who know how to kiss well, and please a woman in bed. You will find another one, and hopefully the next one won't already be married to someone else. Keep your chin up, go out with friends, mingle, date, it will get better. Just give it some time. Best of luck to you!!
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