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writes:one of my closest mates has just told me he loved me and the boy who said he loved me is a year younger. i sort of fancy him but im in love with this other boy. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (18 April 2007):
 Only you can make that desicion. Go with your gut feeling, the one who you feel strongly about, the one who gives you butterflies in you tummy.
But don't be to quick to fall in love, you are still very young, enjoy life and the joys that being 15 brings.
Good luck x
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 Hey Hun,
tricky situation eh?
Well, if it's an consolation, I've been there. My friend told me he loved me but I had just started to go out with my current boyfriend.
You are very young, but I understand that you're not too young to love. I was always told that I was too young to be in love but that's not true and it's very patronising!
But this guy that loves you is young, and I believe that you should tell him that you don't feel for him as he feels for you but you really don't want it to affect your friendship. He may not understand love, love means you will do ANYTHING for someone, even die. Whether this is strong like or love is another thing. But you need to be honest with him - after all, you are friends and friends should be honest with each other should they not? It will hurt more if you drag it out, you need to tell him asap, from past experience, i know it's for the best. You want to tell him now and give him a starting point for him to move on from - tell him you don't love him in that way but u'll always be there for him, it is better to hurt him now so he can move on, rather than give him false hope.
Good luck, I wish you all the best. :)
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reader, hiddenspace +, writes (18 April 2007):
 You're quite young, so you won't want to be settling down anytime soon.
How does the boy you love feel about you? Have you got a chance with him?
If so, then I'd wait for the guy you love, but if not, then I'd make one guys dreams come true, and have some fun with your mate in a new exciting way.
Have fun.
x
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