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18-21,
anonymous
writes:i've been working at my work for a few years and a while ago me and my boss become close we will always quite close as i looked at him like a father figure cos hes older and always helped me out if i had a problem he treated all his staff well always letting us have breaks etc a while ago we strated messin round he jokes with us all saying stuff like if you went with me youd never walk again etc and we would joke back yea ok try it old timer etc lol i don't really know how it happened but we started txting jokes etc then was messing round then we became more close we ending up kissin in work when nobody was round one day i didnt plan it 2 happen then we started kissing and havin cuddles more often when people werent round after a while we even messed round more in front of ppl as we always messed round anyway and ppl thought nothing of it for a while then ppl started to ask if anything was going on we said no etc anyway it started to get to me and i had been drinking on the day we slept together he'd been txing me sayin he was in luv with me that he wanted to be with me he would leave his wife that he was sad when he wasnt with me etc so we ended up sleeping together i also have a boyfriend anyway so he told his wife a while later that he was in luv with me and she started txing me saying hes left me i hope you feel the same as him etc so i txt back i luv him and then i had to tell my bf but me and my bf decided to work things out and my boss went back to his wife he told her we only had a kiss whereas my bf knows everything i feel bad about what i've done and i've left work i was having trouble being depressed at the time and my boss was a shoulder to cry on that got out of control he still txts me sayin he luves me etc hes in his mid 40s and i am 20 i know this is a massive age gap i just dnt know what to do now my bf says that he should have known better and knew i was ill (depression) at the time and thinks that he took advantage of that, i don't know what to think i know i should have known better too, any advice of anyone would be a great help thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): hiya hes still txtin me but i have told him to stop also i am looking for another job and haven't gone back there i know i made a stupid mistake and i'm lucky to have my bf its made me relise wot i have and i dnt want to lose that thanks for you answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): GET A NEW JOB!!! Things will not get better for you, your BF, your boss, or his wife until you cut off all contact. Otherwise every day at work will be like picking at a scab... nothing will ever heal.
Get a rocking recommendation and then get out of there!
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reader, Smiles  + ♥, writes (11 June 2008):
 I think you should be very greatful that your boyfriend is so understanding, supportive and caring. VALUE him.
I suggest you stop worrying about what happened and why, it will not change what happenend.However concentrate on the future, start doing things to show your boyfriend how much you love him, appreciate him and spoil him.
Good luck.
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