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writes: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and two months now. I'm 17, and he's almost 20. (The age difference isnt that bad) But I keep thinking about our future together, getting married, having kids, getting a house, and he says thats what he wants to do as well. Problem is, he wants to only think of the present, and we still have 5 years to go till we can even think about getting married. Is there any hope for us to stay together and make it to the end? Reply to this Question
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (16 October 2006):
a lot of men tend to want to think of only the present as thinking about the future too much scares them. Dont pressure him too much about it and relax what will be will be.
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reader, xlittleredcutiex  +, writes (16 October 2006):
hiya.you're only 17, i say you should take things day by day aswell and live in the present. I'm 16 and i thought that about my first love (who is also 16) i wanted kids with him and get married to him, i was with him for a year but now we've been spilt up for about 3 weeks i realise i was so naive.i'm still growing up and changing.And you might change in a year or two or he could. I'm just saying don't have your expections too high cause you could fall.
hope i don't sound nasty.good luck and don't worry too much. xxx
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