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I screwed things up between us. Can I get him back?

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Question - (24 May 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2006)
A , *iddy7 writes:

OK, I made a huge mistake and lost the love of my life. I let my stress level change me and ruin my relationship, We have been thru a lot and now he won't even answer the phone when I call, but he will listen to my messages. I have lost everything, I can't eat, can't sleep. I know I have to give it time, but it's so hard... I just want to make things right. What can i do? I need help. I love him so much..how can i get him back...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006):

he listens to your messages??? how do you know that?

By the sounds of it you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself he is clearly not interested any more.

Your giving him unwanted attention which is making you look like a fool! you need to delete everything associated with him, throw away everything that reminds you of him and get yourself out there and find someone who will show you the attention which you obviously crave!! its not the end of the world... you will eat, sleep drink again. Hes not worth making yourself ill x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005):

WOW well.. i know he wont anwser your calls but leave him and message saying you miss him and you woudl like a second change and you hav changed say things like you were the best thing that happend to me... stuff liek that hope it works bye bye

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2005):

I think you should leave him a message or writh him a letter explaing how you feel and letting him know how sorry you really are.

If he doesn't reply then maybe you should try to move on. I know it can be difficult but it's the best thing to do. Go on a night out with some friends and forget about him because the sooner you forget about him, the better you will feel and the sooner you can move on with your life.

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A reader, Wildberries +, writes (24 May 2005):

You might be able to re-establish this, but my question is: if he will not hear you out ...WHY? How many times have you done this to him? Is this a monthly occurance? Is he fed up with the emotional rollercoaster You can only say I am sorry so many times before you have to accept that this is the way it is.

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