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female
age
13-15,
anonymous
writes:I feel really down and used at this point but anyways....Me and my bf was playing around, and he got on top on me and started to take my shirt off and stuff. well at the time i wasnt feeling to good. so i was like please stop not right now. he yelled at him and said "what the hell is your problem, am i not good enough anymore" i said "yeah babe but im sick and tired right now." he got all pissed and shaked me a lil and got off of me.I was like what ever.I called my mom and left.well then the other night me and him kissed and he went to make out with me, i was like "stop i have strep throat i cant, you might get it."He took is hand and hit me across the face.I was like "what the fuck is your problem"He got on top of me and hit me in the face 3 or 4 times.He bite my neck.Yelled at me.(his parents wasnt home at the time, so i couldnt yell for help)And then stopped and laughed.I was crying and left the room and went to sit on the couch.Well he came in there and picked me up and threw me on the bed.and starting doing stuff.i was scared to say anything or fight because i was afriad he would hit me again.So i let him have sex with me.Well that night when i got home, he called. I answered and he said.....him-"baby i am so sorry about today i knew i shouldnt have hit you, and i swear it wont happen again."me-"why did you do that though"him-"i have no idea, i just i dont know. promise not to leave me or anything"me-"ughh i dont know"him-"you try and leave me, you cant i know where you live and will get you."me-"ugh wat ever"him-" *laughs* Ok baby i g2g ttyl. bye"And that was it. Today he texted me like everything was fine.Me and my parents and family arent close so yeah. and school i cant go to them.So i dont know what to do....
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reader, Georgia13 +, writes (16 July 2009):
 if he did it once chances are hell do it again
no guy has any right whatsoever to hit you for not wanting to have sex at the time!!!
you need to dump his ass!!!!!!
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (15 July 2009):
 If you don`t know who you can talk to pick up the phone and dial 911. This guy assaulted you and basically raped you.Log a police report on it now.This guy deserves to be held accountable for his actions.I don`t think there is anything to get a conviction but this guy will do this again and worse.Maybe suggest your willing to wear a wire or to see if you can get your phone tapped.Let the police know your willing to work with them.This problem is already way out of control and needs to be dealt with fast.Do not let him scare you into silence.That is the only way he has control.
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reader, TasteofIndia + ♥, writes (15 July 2009):
 You get away from this creepy, abusive guy. You tell your parents. Print off your question and show them - I think you've articulated your situation well enough here. Your parents do care about you and about your health and safety. If you really feel like you can't talk to them, go anywhere - a Planned Parenthood could help you, the police could help you, a counselor could help you... if you have friends whose parents you like, you could talk to them.
Your fella threatened you if you leave him, that is really scary. It's also scary that he flipped out and hit you, bit you, shook you. He is a frightening person and I wouldn't trust him in the least. You need to get out of this relationship, but you also need to stay safe. Talk to someone, anyone who you trust!!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, Skellington +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Go to the cops. Tell them what happened, what he said, and how you're afraid. Surely they can take care of it.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (15 July 2009):
Ummmmm hears an idea!! Tell someone!! Tell them that he threatened you if you broke up with him!! Tell SOMEONE!! Doesn't matter where or when you do it and tell your family anyway!! Doesn't matter if your not close they'll help you no matter what cause your there daughter!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Honey, this man is about as abusive as it gets! He not only assaulted you, he basically raped you! And don't kid yourself...it will happen again and worse. Abusive relationships always get worse without major intervention. Leave him now before he does real harm to you.But be careful as men like that tend to escalate violence with their victim leaves. http://www.ehow.com/how_4519047_leave-abusive-relationship.html
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