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writes:i am extremely worried. recently i had a webcam session with a girl (was a fake) and i ended up showing my face and revealing a little too much. now i wonder whether the session was recorded and that it could be pasted on the net. i did ask the person if the session was being recorded and she/he got angry but did not reply in yes or no. it is affecting my daily life as i cannot concentrate anymore. moreover i am well known in my circle and my work requires to meet them. kindly help as i am panicked and desperate. will talking to the police help at all? can they give me closure on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): It was a very foolish thing to do with someone you didnt even know. So you cant trust them to keep the video content private...if it was recorded. Luckily for you there are thousands, maybe even millions of people that have done something similar at some point in time. And a few of those people probably look very much like you! So do as suggested here and dispose of the webcam so you cant be tempted again. And stop worrying about it. The chances of it being shown online are slim. Even if it is, people you know may never see it. Even if they do, theres no real proof its you. So treat is as a lesson learned and forget about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx for your reply. i know i made a mistake.but i am not this kind of a person and neither do i ever do it. it was my ignorance on the matter that led to such a situation. now i am desperate and hopeless. i want closure. everyone i know would be shamed if it gets out. this shame and guilt is killing me. please advise.
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 What are you?
A horny 13 year old?
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, say, put in writing, or record on audio, video or film, anything that you would not want the entire world to see or hear!
And for God sakes, throw that web-cam into the garbage!
Almost everything on the net is considered "Public Domain".
After all, you freely gave this "content" to her. It's now hers to do with as she pleases!
If she does decide to post it on the "web", your SCREWED!
If it wasn't recorded, "WAKE THE FUCK UP", grow up,
and never, ever, do that again!
I wish you luck, but to tell you the truth buddy, I don't hold out much hope for ya.
Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): Firstly, what do you mean by "a webcam session with a girl (all fake)"? You revealed too much by showing your face? So what were you revealing? No, don't tell me, I can guess.
I doubt the police would even entertain your enquiry as you, as a consenting adult, participated of your own free will in this "webcam session".
As you have rightly figured out, but way too late (!), you could very well have been filmed - you have no way of knowing for sure what anyone is doing with footage captured on the Internet. So, I'm afraid you will just have to live with the worry.
I don't really need to tell you to confine your "relations" to real girls in future, do I?
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