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I really want to tell her how I feel? Should I risk it?

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Question - (6 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2007)
A male United Kingdom, *weet111 writes:

Hi, I'm 21, 22 in next few days and i feel like I'm old - really old lol. Im a virgin and I'm not too proud about it... anyway i met up with a girl at the racing last year and got on well with her and although we got close nothing really happened as we were both hoping for relationships with other people.

Now though, 6 months later she's living away and i really want to be with her... i have thought about her for ages and tonight we just got back talking on msn and txt... shud i tell her how i feel and end up feelin like a prat or live to regret something that cud have been?? please help

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A male reader, Dagwood South Africa +, writes (6 February 2007):

Dagwood agony auntHi buddy. Take the risk and tell her how you feel! Just make sure it comes out correctly and that you express the desire to be with her and not the need to have her... in other words don't smother her. Just do it once and wait for the response. If she goes cold don't push the issue. Love is worth the risk! Don't worry about being a virgin; you have many years ahead to enjoy yourself. Go for it...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

You have got to tell her how you feel otherwise you will be thinking for the rest of your life what if?? Anyway if she isn't around locally nemore then you wont feel like a prat coz no-one will know except you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

You should def! tell her, you never know what she is thinking in return or where it might lead. You really dont have anything to hold back. Remember honesty can take you a long way in life. Dont hold back.

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