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DjManny123
writes:Hello!! Long one sorry lol I've been with my Girlfriend now for a month, we broke up after a year and half relationship, 5/6 months went by and we got back together.During the start of the month all was well and we were having a laugh and stuff. Now a few weeks have gone by and I feel pressured by her because she always seems fed up with me....Say for example I'm sitting on her bed with her listening to music and I joke around by saying something she immediatly snaps at me and gets really pissed off. I really try hard to crack a smile or laugh from her.....We had a argument a few days back over one of my girl MATE, my girl mate text me saying she missed me and put few kisses at the end of text, As poliety as anyone would do as reply saying the same, My GF took my phone off me and starting browsing through my messages and saw the text from my girl mate.She starting going into one and shouting her mouth off saying she does not trust me and I always lie to her, I tryed to get it through to her that all she is, is my mate and nothing more. She does not believe me. Whenever someone like her parents or friends talk to her she's all bubbly and laughy but when it comes to me she is always fed up and pissed off.We have had time away from each other which I know that is what your suggesting to do but it does not work, the minute we come off that break and see each other for like 5 mins we start arguing over the stupid things.And by the way No it's not the time of month with her....Many Thanks xx DjManny
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reader, Andy00 + ♥, writes (19 December 2007):
 Mate, I really suggest you read over everything you have told us. Do you really want to stay in a relationship with somebody who doesn't seem to have fun with you, nor trusts you? These are 2 things that are the keys to a successful relationship; fun and trust. It sounds like you have neither of those in your relationship.
I'm sure she has her good qualities and you have your negative qualities, but if things continue like this then you'd be as well calling it off right now. You two need a serious talk about all of this. I have to believe that no matter what you both decide, good will come from it; If you can find a way to make this work, then good for you, but on the other hand, if you can't, I myself, and I hate to say it this way but; maybe it's for the best.
Please, sit down with her, and have a serious talk about your relationship. Maybe you can save it, but from my perspective, I suggest you prepare for the worst. I wish you the best of luck, because I understand that none of this can be easy to hear.
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