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writes: i recently started being with this guy but the problem is he is still getting over his break up with his girlfriend this happened about a month ago, he keeps saying he hates her-(which i believe) because his mates tell me. I go over to his nearly every night and we get on soooo well and we both like each other but the other night he found out that his ex has a new boyfriend and i understood he needed to take all that in, but now i've not seen him in a week but we still text. I need help because i don't know what he's thinking.Why is he being so off with me because we we're soo close?? he told me a while ago that he is sorry for being weird and that he really likes me am i being messed around?? please help cheers xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): oh god,
i know EXACTLY how you feel. Happened to me too! It's been a month since he broke up with her? Well, depending on how he felt about her and how long they went out, he might not be over her. I think you should go on a "break" it's the safest without breaking up. Tell him you know he feels...odd, and confused maybe and that when he's ready, you will be too. But don't wait hand and foot, you don't want to seem desperate or give him the image that he can come to you whenever, because you'll always be there. But be nice too, because he's having a hard time. Hope this helps.
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reader, carlyuk  +, writes (12 August 2006):
 It sounds like you are not being messed around but i think the resason why you haven't seen him in a week is because he just needs time to get over his ex and realise he has you. When you do see your ex with someone else it can be quite upseting i think you should try and be there for him whilew he gets over here hope i helped.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (12 August 2006):
 Hey,
I don't think you are being messed around at all, but breaking up with someone and then seeing them with someone else is usually a kick in the teeth. He had bonded deeply with her and then sees her going out with someone else. He just needs time, if he was messing you around he wouldn't apologise for being weird, txt you so much and let you come around his house nearly every night.
Just take it slow and don't try to rush things, he'll come around in his own time.
Hope this helped.
Phoebe xxx
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