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I really like this girl but my friend has liked her for longer...what do I do??

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Question - (15 October 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

i like a girl n she might like me but one of my friends has liked her longer what should i do? and when i mean like her i think about her non stop please help me

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A female reader, Cool Cucumber United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2006):

Cool Cucumber agony auntIt's highly unlikely that she would fancy both of you...if she likes either one of you at all!!! If she does like one of you then, this you have no control over which of you she likes. You have a 50% chance that she may like you, explain to your friend how much you like her. It's not a competetion it is a human being with feelings your talkng about here (the girl). Just be honest with your friend and say that you were thinking of asking her out sometime!!

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A male reader, AnonimousJake +, writes (16 October 2006):

i was in the same position as your friend once, i was absolutly crazy about a girl, then like a punch in the face, my best friend started dating her.

not only were my feelings for her shattered, but i began to question my 'best' friendship, months on, with the girl long gone, we both look back with a little regret, we both wish to god that he would have spoken to me before hand.

talk to him, or you'll wish you had.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006):

does she like u?..u dont wana betray ur freind..afta all girls cum n go..freinds are for life? it also depends on how much ur freind likes her..duz he jus think 'yer shes fit' or is he into her as much as u...i say hav a 'man to man'chat if it seems as tho they are getin serious then sit back n keep ur mouth zippd..but at the end of the day..if this girl is worth it...i say u go for it..u dnt wana be looking back thinkin 'what if'... take control of ur own destiny...tricky situation..good luck..freind x

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A female reader, Love Rockx my Sockx +, writes (15 October 2006):

Aww well u have to tell ure friend you like her a lot - and in a way come to an agreement; i guess u want u wnt ure conscience to be clean so i doubt u want to betray ure friend but u need to think about how much u liek her! - follow ure heart .....

Xx Good Luck xX ! :):)

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