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writes:I met a guy roughly this time last year at a party, we chatted and danced together and just had fun. I did like him but had to put it out of my mind as I had a boyfried, however my boyfriend and I broke up at the end of March. We lost contact over the summer however I saw him again at the end of October last year and we exchanged numbers. (At this point the feelings I had had before all came rushing back and I really liked him - I still do!) After exchanging numbers we texted non-stop for a couple of weeks and then we arranged to meet up for a coffee, which we did, we went for a walk with our coffees and just talked and talked. He was so nice and kind, and a real gentleman, when I tripped he put his hand out to catch me and asked if I was ok. When we parted he gave me a big hug goodbye and held me tight. We arranged to meet up before Christmas and again we sat inside this time and talked and talked about anything and everything. I was openly flirting - eye contact, little gestures, touching his arm etc etc and he seemed to be recoperating it. He was touching me and maintaing eye contact. Again when we parted he gave me a big hug.He called me on New Years eve to wish my a happy new year which was really nice and sweet. I recoperated by sending him a text the following day as I was abroad and couldn't call him. We were still texting alot. I then saw him halfway thru Jan within a group, and we were just mucking around and having fun. However I felt that it was me doing all the work, and it seemed like he wasn't interested anymore. So I left it for a while, but recently we have started texting more frequently again. He's being really friendly and when I'm down always says 'let me know if theres anything I can do' and things like that.I really really like this guy, he's such a sweetheart and a genuinely nice guy, I've never felt like this before, and when we wern't texting I really missed him. I've even dreamt about him!The thing is I'm really not sure whats going on! Because I really do like him but I'm clueless as to what is going on! If any of you have any idea then I would be grateful for your input and advice!Sorry this is so long, but I thought the more detail the better! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Maybe he is the one that has a girlfriend? or maybe he is gay?
with guys these days there is no telling on whats going on in their heads while us girls do all the work
Hope everything works out for you!
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reader, mandabaaby  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Maybe ask him what he thinks, or if he likes you, because if you dont ask questions you wont know.. So if you dont want to get rejected (if thats what happens) then maybe txt him.
Boys will be boys, Im having a very hard time with mine right now. But ask this guy if he likes you or if he sees what you guys have going anywhere, its better to know then to sit there wondering what it would of been like if you did ask.
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