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writes:I saw this guy on my brothers engagement cause he was the photographer. He knew that day I was his sister and he is a really nice guy. He became my friend on Facebook after that but we never spoken. After 2 years he became friends on instagram and I liked his photos and he likes almost all my photos. He messaged me saying he wants to say hi before there is no photos to like which was funy. We said hi and chatted asked me about life and my family. He asked me what I like to do for fun. And told him like taking pics and I said you can teach me and he said he would love that. He messaged me his number and said text me so I can save your number and he said we will set it up to hangout. I texted him the next day and he said hi but he later said he has to sleep. It has been three days since we texted to eachother. I haven't heard from him since then. But I did told him that I would let him know when a good time for me is. I really like him and I don't want to text him because I don't want to look desperate. Please let me know what I should do about my date or hangout does he like me? Why did he messaged me. He said he doesn't have a girlfriend. Should I tell him I like him?
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reader, Staceily +, writes (18 August 2014):
 He did say to text him when a good time for you would be, maybe he is waiting to hear back. Regardless of the reasoning just go for it and text him first. You like the guy, take the initiative. It doesn't make you desperate to be upfront with your feelings, it actually makes you attractive because most people play games and won't say how they feel. You stand out as the confident girl who goes for what she wants- the opposite of desperation.
Text him something to the effect of "hey. I'm free ______, did you still want to get together?"
And go from there. It's a simple message following up on what the two of you discussed. If he doesn't seem interested then let it go. Continuing to text him after he shows no interest is desperation.
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