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I really like her and want to date her, but Im worried that I wont express myself clearly and things will go wrong!!

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Question - (3 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi.

Theres this girl I like, and who I really wish something happens with. I really like her and enjoy being with her, yet the other day when I asked myself 'What is it exactly do I like about her?' I wasn't really able to answer it. I've never been that good at expressing how I feel/what I think (so my old english teacher used to tell me), so is that my problem?

I can say I enjoy being with her and I like talking with her, and she is very beautiful, but I'm really sure why! I just do enjoy being with her over any other girl.

I just fear she may one day ask me what I think of her (in the above sense) and I'l be stuck and make a mess of it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007):

if you said to her what you just said, about you thinking she was beautiful, how you enjoy talking to her, and enjoy being with her above any other girl i think she'd be highly flattered. I think a lot of people when they are in love or seem to be, often can't say exactly what it is that attracts them to that particular person. So don't worry, i think she's already lucky to have someone who thinks of her with such high regard. Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007):

Does she like you back? If so then ask her what she likes about you before she dives in and asks you the same question. What you could back is 'i enjoy being with you, like talking to you and you are beautiful'. As for when you say 'I just fear she may one day ask me what I think of her (in the above sense)' why should she ask you that? So stop fearing because she might never do (ask you).

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