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I put my hand down his pants. What should I do next?

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Question - (2 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2008)
A female United States age 16-17, KissMeDead,InLove. writes:

my boyfriend and i have been dating for about two months now or so

and i realize this is probably moving super fast

but he and i were making out long before we were dating, something you should probably know

we are both underage and not super interested in having sex, we just like to... eh.. play.

but he and i were making out the other day in my bedroom and we started sort of playing a game

i did to him whatever he did to me, eventually he started fingering me (something that's happened many times before, no biggy)

so i put my had down his pants

this is the first time ive done that

and i rubbed it a little

but he said my hand was cold and made me take it out

but while i was down there

i kind of freaked out cuz

i had no idea what to do..

then

later he asked exactly what i was going to do

and i was just like "umm just somethingg"

but

..i know this sounds stupid

but once i get my hand down his pants

what should i do?

i mean

i cant really see it

so...

??can you help me by chance??

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A female reader, DiovanLestat United Kingdom + , writes (2 June 2008):

DiovanLestat agony auntNo I won't help you. You are underage. If you were ready for sexual play, you wouldn't need advice, you would know what to do naturally.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

If you are not sure then tell him. Ask him what he likes and doesn't like. Believe me, 99% of guys probably masterbate so he might know. My boyfriend gives me ideas of what he likes and its ok because we can share that kind of thing (don't be embarassed, talking is important in a relationship) Let him guide you and before long you'll be able to do it without his help. Practise makes perfect! Good Luck Hunny! x x x

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom + , writes (2 June 2008):

You say you are under age so I am rather concerned to give you advice as to what to do. However, your profile says 16-17. Let us know your age first perhaps?

take care, H xx

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