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30-35,
*luvsox
writes:My girlfriend and I have been dating almost 9 months and when we hang out, sometimes we like do engage in sexual activities. I have found myself doing so much more than her, I pleasure her with hands and mouth, but she barely ever does stuff to me.I find it frustrating, but I just tend to ignore it but its happening more and more and its starting to really put me in a bad mood. The second problem is that when she does happen to do give me a hand job (she won't give me head) she goes until I'm just about to cum, and then she just stops, without saying a word. I want to talk to her about this, but I can't figure out how to tell her without sounding like someone who just wants sexual gratification.I guess what it comes down to is:-My girlfriend rarely pleasures me when I do so for her often.-When she does do stuff to me, she wont let me cum at all (she leaves me with a bad case of blue balls)What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): start charging her for the service or do the same to her, and just say whoops!then go to sleep or is she worried about getting pregnant???
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reader, Jia  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Hmm, that's tough. It's great that you put a lot of yourself into sexual aspect of your relationship, but it takes both of the people in a relationship working together, sexually or not, to have a mutually satisfying one. One can only do what you're doing for so long before they end up with a terrible case of sexual frustration which can then affect their day to day life as well. If this continues, you might end up like that, and unintentionally lash out at, and alienate yourself from your girlfriend. You owe it to the both of you to tell her what you're feeling, try to talk it out. It's going to be difficult, but it'll be even more difficult and possibly lead to a messy brake-up and a whole lot of hurt if you don't.Best of Luck!
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