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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I like to watch lesbian porn and whenever my boyfriends at work and I'm on my own I go on the internet and watch it. I love my boyfriend so much and I've been with him nearly 2 years but I don't understand why I like this more than heterosexual porn? It's not an obsession or anything and when I'm with my boyfriend in a sexual way, he satisfies me completely but watching them turns me on....but say a pretty girl walks past I won't take any interest what so ever.Should I tell my boyfriend about this and will he be mad that I watch porn?Also am I lesbian or bi for watching this? It's not every time I'm on my own just when I feel like watching it.Opinions and advice please?
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reader, missy_musk +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Now im not gonna lie, as you can see im female. I live with my boyfriend and im bisexual. I f***ing love watching lesbian porn! Watching it does not determine your sexuality! Bet ya your partner watches porn too! Over 80% of the brisish population watch or have watched a porno! regardless of peoples personal views, porn is here to stay! There are very mixed feelings about porn and a lot of people will see it as a taboo subject. But if you enjoy it whats the harm? Your not breaking the law are you?, Your not cheating on your partner are you? and your not hurting anyone are you? Personally my partner knows i watch porn and i know he watches porn. Ok its not something that we do together i know i never will be comfortable watching porn with him and vice versa. But in a way you could say its healthy for our relationship. Some men may not like his girl watching porn but what would he rather, his girl watching porn or his girl getting off on some other guy?! There is nothing wrong with you sweetie and dont ever let him or anyone else tell you so!! feel free to mail me xx
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 Nothing abnormal about watching it, and no, it doesn't make you a lesbian. Telling your boyfriend may be good or bad. Porn is one of those things that a lot of people feel very strongly about. Either the idea will really turn him on, or he'll be really put off. Do you know if he watches porn? It might be fun to watch some together.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 Hi no this does not mean that you are a lesbian or bisexual. So try not to worry. You are not doing anything wrong therefore it is up to you if you wish to tell your boyfriend or not.
Ok im guessing that you like watching this as even though you are not a lesbian you are watching two girls pleasuring each other and even though you might not have feelings for girls, it turns you on to see a girl getting stimulated, this is totally normal and there is nothing to be worried about. It doesnt mean that you are not heterosexual so please dont worry about this.
If you fear that your boyfriend may not understand then why dont you introduce it to him and see how he feels. Next time you both get intimate, tell him you have a surprise for him and turn on the porn and see how he reacts. Good luck sweetie.
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