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I only want to date men, so why am I becoming addicted to lesbian porn?

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Question - (27 July 2013) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have this problem I am 100% straight I know this because I date only guys and I am attracted to only guys, yeah everyone dreams of a model body and I am rather insecure sometimes. But my issue is I am worth lesbian porn quite alot recently and getting rather addicted to it like the sex scenes between two girls get turned on. But I know I am not lesbian for sure! Its not that i am in denial because i would never be with a female ever. I am not bisexual either I love men. Why is this happening?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2013):

Hi im the orginal person who posted this, just like to say thanks for the feedback im relieved and i wouldnt say like everyday or that it intereferes with my life at all i rarely watch it but thought it maybe an addiction cause i search for it but its cool. Thanks again

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A female reader, SilverVintage United States +, writes (28 July 2013):

SilverVintage agony auntI would say it's normal, just something out of curiosity. As other answers stated, most porn is directed towards men and therefore it is unrealistic, hard and its a playground for then men to show their dominance so to speak. It doesn't mean you are a lesbian or bisexual at all.

Unless you have romantic and emotional feelings for woman and could see yourself in a relationship with one, I wouldn't worry. You stated you are 100% heterosexual, you know your sexual preferences.

Females are the "prettier" sex so to speak and from a little bit of research I did as psychology major, females are more sensual and soft when it comes to physical matters. Its probably not that you are watching it for a female on female fantasy, but probably for the sensuality that comes with it.

You're okay :)

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (28 July 2013):

largentsgirl89 agony auntI am straight as well. I am engaged with two children and I watch lesbian porn. I don't like the straight porn where the guy is always banging the girl and it's usually always the same positions.

Lesbian porn is just better to me I guess. Sensual because females are sensual beings.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you watching lesbian porn. If you start to watch it so often that it is interfering with your life and your job, then you might have an addiction problem, but other than that, you're golden.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2013):

Nothing to worry about. Everyone enjoys watching naked beautiful women doing naughty things. It doesn't make you or anyone else a lesbian.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (28 July 2013):

person12345 agony auntMany straight women who use porn prefer lesbian porn. Porn is overwhelmingly made by men for men and frequently shows uncomfortable or downright painful moves and positions. Lesbian porn typically does not.

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A female reader, Dawnielou United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2013):

I don't think it's anything to worry about. It sounds like curiosity which is completely normal anyway.

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A male reader, human_male New Zealand +, writes (27 July 2013):

human_male agony auntI don't know why it's happening but I don't think it necessarily means anything. I don't think it's anything to worry about.

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