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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together 5 months...but it's a bit strange and I am very bothered by the fact that we only see each other at work.We are work-mates 4 days a week, for 8 sometimes 10 hrs a day. He has another job on the weekends, in another state and I know the people he works with and for. On his one day off he sometimes helps his uncle at a family business, or he takes a cooking class. He is very very busy, and when we first started liking each other he was upfront about no time for a relationship, but I guess I grew on him, cos now we talk on phone text and/or email when we can't be physically together (at work). Sometimes I hang out and help him at his weekend job, just to be with him, and I know he appreciates that. One time we went to the movies and it was awkward on how rushed it was. He had to get back to work, and so it was just movies no dinner, a nice goodbye kiss and apologized profusely for quick short movie date. The thing is, I really really like him and when we are together we have fun!!! But I want more time with him and I'm afraid to voice it...other guys at work are asking me out, and he hears about it, and says it's ok if I want to go out with them (he gets annoyed when he says it tho so I don't think he means it) but I don't want anyone else, just him!! We've kissed no sex, he is awesome and respectful, but I want more of him than he can give me! I have hobbies, or I clean my house to keep me occupied, sometimes I go out with my girlfriends, but how do I get over missing him? How can I get him to spend time with me? Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): Just tell him or he won't know.
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