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writes: I don’t why, but I think most of my problem comes from the fact that I cant let go. I been with my boyfriend for seven months now, and I believe I found someone else, which connect with far more than I would have thought. I find myself unable to let go my boyfriend. I think I have grown close to him, and I can't see myself let go. How can I even bring the topic of us separating when I know he caries and loves for me so much? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jimmy +, writes (12 April 2006):
I sympathise with your situation and would personally be heartbroken if my girlfriend did the same thing. The first thing to do is to sit down and ask yourself if you love him. Secondly, why are there connection problems there? What could he do to connect better to you? Have you tried talking to him about this, I don't mean that you should tell him you've possibly found someone else but that you should both sit down and have a real heart to heart about what he can do better to be your ideal boyfriend. There is nothing worse than being in a relationship and hiding things from your partner, because that sows the seeds of doubt in their mind and instinct tells them that something is not right which can really eat a person up, so talk before it's too late and don't make any rash decisions you may live to regret.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 April 2006):
 dear reader you have to follow your heart on this one and be strong don't stay in a relationship if you don't feel the same you have to learn to let go if your going to move on. make sure this other guy feels for you as you do for him or it will all just be a waste of time.don't be silly about this think about it carefully and follow your heart not your conciencegood luck hope you find whats right for you xxx
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