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I need to get over him. Why do we keep breaking up and reuniting. How can I get over him?

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Question - (11 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, *lj038 writes:

We've had an on and off relationship for over 3 years now.

He loves me, i love him, but i always break up with him. Right now we are apart, but everytime i see him my eyes water , and i melt. all the memories come flooding back.

My bestfriend keeps giving me advice but i don't know what to do. Everyone's telling me it will get better, but it hasnt yet. I want ... i NEED to get over him . Can someone help ?

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2013):

EbonyBlossom agony auntYou don't give us many details - what are your reasons for breaking up with him?

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A female reader, Daisy_Daisy United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2013):

Daisy_Daisy agony auntYou say "right now we are apart", which makes it sound like you might get back together.

Is that realistic? If not, the first step is to accept that it's over. You won't be able to get over him unless you accept it's over.

After that, it takes effort to do things to distract yourself somewhat so you're not moping around dwelling on him. And it takes time. Three years is a long time together. Do you have to see him, at school or college? Could you avoid seeing him for a while?

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